@Flockameanie No, I'm not worried, primarily because this is going to be a very long term home for us. I've got DC with significant SEN/disabilities (twins) and for at least one of them, I doubt independent living will be on the cards. We're building an annexe for my elderly DM and stepdad, and then in later years when they've passed, the annexe can be used for DC.
Also, the main house will be traditional construction, it's just an extension which will be non-standard. So that should make be more palatable to mortgage companies. Having said that, there's a real rise in steel/metal/wood extensions and more and more mainstream lenders are willing to consider. It's a really standard form of construction in other countries - it's more eco friendly, quicker and cheaper so it ticks all boxes. It's starting to be used more and more in this country. Oh yes, and they're better insulated too! So with all of this cost of living crisis and energy rocketing, that should be a help.
Non standard construction got a bad name because of the concrete houses built after the war. These crumble and don't last and aren't the same thing as modern SIPs at all.
I spoke to lots of different modular firms and settled on one that is really rigorous, has their own architects for building regs etc. With DM's poor health and the difficulties of my DC, not having months of building work will be an enormous help. Having spoken to a few people who have gone down the modular route, they seem really happy with it. But I do appreciate it's not for everyone. I didn't know anything about it until I stumbled across it by accident so just thought I'd mention it in case it helps anyone else too.