Hi everyone,
I'm having a bit of a nightmare at the moment!
I've had my single storey extension approved recently. I've always kept my neighbour in the loop with what my plans are. But I was unaware that I needed to do a party wall notice because I'm excavating close to the party wall. This sparked off a very heated discussion with my neighbour yesterday. I asked for her details for the surveyor to email her the notice and she said she wouldn't agree to the notice. On the basis that the boundary fence would be taken down for my builders to put up the wall. And that I would be building on her boundary. I explained this isn't the case and that the notice is literally just to inform her of the building works. If she is uncomfortable with the fence being taken down, then the wall can be built entirely on my side. I tried my best to reassure her.
Basically she's an elderly neighbour who has lived in her house for many years. I think she's at the beginning stages of having dementia, so conversing with her is difficult. She is incredibly defensive and twists and turns things around so the conversation is almost impossible.
In general we have always have always had a good relationship. But she doesn't like change, and is fiercely defensive of her house. I have always respected our boundaries and keep myself to myself. But this has obviously caused her a great amount of anxiety which I feel bad about, however I have a right to build on my property.
It's really strange, but she agreed to my extension which is 4 meters long, 1 meter more than permitted development. But it seems like she is now backtracking on her decision and trying trick to avoid it taking place.
What concerned me is that she started taking about how it would affect her light. But firstly her house/ back windows are dark almost all the time due to a MASSIVE tree about 3 metres from her house. And we are south west facing. So she has sun all the time. She is the the left of me when looking at the back of our houses. My extension is pitched which helps too. My extension wouldn't take away any of her sun. She is aware of that too,
Is it easy/cheap to take a neighbour to court over loss of light? I know this is worst case scenario, I'm really hoping this won't happen but I would rather know before starting to build my extension.
I think my neighbour will be difficult so I'm anticipating a hard time with this!
Any words of advice please? Thanks