@hannahcolobus fair enough, but in your first post you said buyers negotiating a downvalue ‘soured the relationship’, despite you admitting that you’ve done it yourself and people have no choice.
Again it’s extremely easy to find out whether your buyers can proceed in the event of a down valuation. All you have to do is ask for proof of extra funds. If you knew that yo ur buyers offered over the odds, but there was no proof of extra funds, surely you knew there was a risk of down valuation?
Buyers asking for last minute reductions, last minute pulling out etc are all immoral and unfair. But I don’t think negotiating a down valuation is. Especially as the market isn’t consistent. Houses are undervalued in some places, overvalued in others. In your experience it was accurate, but in mine a lot weren’t. Anecdotal evidence isn’t going to for anything though is it?
FWIW I’ve offered on a house, 20K over asking. The listing said ‘offers over’ - so the wording is already encouraging bidding.
I have enough to carry on if the valuation is up to 5K above the listing price. Presumably this is what the vendor expected to get. all fine.
However if the value is much lower than that - the vendor has clearly been wrong. And should accept it. They shouldn’t get angry at me, for not paying what I offered although the bank says their house isn’t worth that much.
In good faith I provided the estate agent with all my proof of funds, even the extra. They can do the maths. All the information is there and if they choose to ignore it well tough luck. I don’t want to drive a hard bargain or the cheapest house, I just want a fair price.