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House buying dilemma! WWYD?

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PrinnyPree · 21/06/2022 20:54

So potential dream house came on the market, I say potential because it needs alot of work, old kitchen, old boiler, servicable bathroom but it is livable. Detatched, South facing garden still in the catchment of the school I want, (10mins walk away from where I am now) potential to one day have a lovely big kitchen diner extension without compromising the garden. It definitely has the potential to be our forever home.

Now here's the dilemma, we have a small house mortgage free, I have a 2 year old and I quit my job last year to try and start my own business whilst also pretty much being a full time SAHM. Toddler goes to nursery twice a week so I can get on.

We can get a mortgage that will probably cover the difference between our house and dream house £250k on my husbands £53k salary but £1200 mortgage plus extra council tax and energy costs will make things very tight.

We also currently have a neighbour that's turned into a bit of a nightmare since lockdown. We mostly just ignore but he makes us very uncomfortable now.

So what would you do? We would be absolutley maxxed out mortgage wise and couldn't afford any big renovations/extension apart from superficially tarting it up until my business either takes off or I go back to my old career when my son goes to school.

Or should we stick to the original plan of being debt free and having a bit of spare cash even though we only have one salary (in the short term) also slightly shitting myself there'll be a housing crash and should wait a couple of years before making a move when we are more financially comfortable and son starts primary school.

This is up North btw.

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PrinnyPree · 22/06/2022 21:24

Lastqueenofscotland2 · 22/06/2022 12:06

If it needs a lot of work but buying it alone would make things tight, surely you can’t afford to do it up? Let alone extend

We could probably afford to give it a cosmetic facelift and a new boiler (£5-10k). We would leave the extension until I'm pulling in a salary which hopefully should be soon.

If worst came to the worst I could probably get a £40k job tomorrow working remotely with my experience and industry contacts if I was willing to go back fulltime.

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PrinnyPree · 22/06/2022 21:31

@myyellowcar and @sunshinesupermum yeah I think its the crappy neighbour that really is pushing us to take a risk (my husband is usually extremely sensible with money and is very risk averse)

I think we will probably make an offer and see what happens. I think the deck is probably stacked against us, we will probably be outbid, we are weak buyers without our house on market yet and mortgage deals we can safely take out are starting to evaporate. But if all the planets align I think we'll go for it. 😬🤞

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sunshinesupermum · 22/06/2022 21:34

Good luck!

alwaysmovingforwards · 22/06/2022 21:36

Depends on your attitude to risk really..

I took risk and stretched myself at every move. I can look back there were lean times, couple of missed holidays, running old cars, doing lots of DIY etc.

But I'm comfortable and secure now I'm older due to pushing when younger. Still have some projects left in me though.. Being tight for money made me actively think about how to better my prospects and earn more. And doing DIY taught me lots of skills I use to this day.
Looking back have zero regrets.
I see it all as chapters in life's adventure!
Being safe as and secure will be great... when I'm retired. But not whilst I'm working and earning.

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