The poster you really need to be apologising to (if that is what you are doing) is @sillytops , who lives in Skelmersdale and has explained to you why it is a nice place to live. She’s near a good school for her kids. Parks and good schools can be found all over West Lancashire.
We’ve seen all kinds of ‘prejudices and preferences’ on this thread, from you and the idiot who appears to have taken violently against perfectly respectable areas like Upholland, presumably to make yourselves feel better.
Here’s the thing people like you never understand: the people keenest to sneer at residential areas for being ‘common’ or ‘rough’ are always, without fail, the people who have come from that exact background and are desperate to distance themselves. Desperate. Because they are closer to their origins than they want to admit and it doesn’t fit in with their fragile self-image of someone who has (kind of) made it.
Example: you say that you have lived happily in Birkenhead and Kirkby, both towns that have some rougher areas but plenty of areas that are nice and where lots of respectable people live happily. And yet, you’re on this thread moaning that you can’t consider anything but the most expensive areas of west Lancs, and insulting more affordable areas that you “wouldn’t even want to drive through”, and which you later admitted that you didn’t even know that much about, despite the fact that you yourself benefited from buying an affordable house. Because you consider yourself a cut above people just like you, and you think that you need to show it by living somewhere you can boast about. But you can’t afford it, can you?
As for this:
it seems like there are loads of really large houses on the market for 500k plus near me but hardly any 3 beds. I think these larger houses used to be affordable for more average people before prices went up and up.
If you thought about it, and it’s already been explained to you, you would understand why you can’t afford these ‘larger houses’. You never could have. The current prices are being fuelled by a tidal wave of money chasing houses. That money is coming from looser lending, to people like you. Too many average people have got £325k to spend. Not because they are special, or a cut above, as you seem to think you are, but because that is what banks are lending to ‘average people’. Before prices went up, lending was stricter. So you still couldn’t have afforded the type of house you want, because you’d have had less money to spend. What bit of this don’t you get?