it looks like you have a grey handle, though something about it makes me think it will be a quarter-turn valve. if you go on your own water co website they probably have a picture showing how to work it.
the round glass window of the meter, possibly has an air bubble in the middle where there is a circle. again the website (or customer help line) will know how yours works.
what you're looking for is movement of the bubble or needle, even when you think no water should be running. the numbers probably count in cubic metres, which is such a lot of water that they would turn very slowly.
on a rainy day, look at your paving and see if water is running towards the house wall. though if it is beneath the dpc, it should not show above it.
if some of your floors are wooden, take up a board and have a look and a sniff for damp. often the boards under the stairs or under the sink are easiest as they may nt be hidden under carpet or laminate.
can you walk down the garden and take a pic that includes the gutters and downpipes, and the drains they empty into. You probably have gullies just next to the house wall, often near a corner.