I'm really in need of some urgent sympathetic advice and support please - just can't seem to make decisions by myself these days (menopause thing? I don't know, anyway....). So.. we got the offer accepted on the house - a 1900s miners terraced. We've had a full structural and an independent damp survey. (The only thing we saw when we initially viewed the property was some damp - obviously didn't know the extent of it. )
Full structural brought up quite a few issues - main four issues being: 1. advised to have the roof covered - nothing between timbers and slates. 2. Repointing; 3. Damp sorting out and 4. Have a fire wall built in the loft. Approx cost for the four above £16k ex VAT. (Prices propably at top end estimates.)
Next were the smaller recommended jobs i.e. changing door locks, refelting back porch roof; replacing corrugated iron roof on shed; possibly a new kitchen if damp repair works mean having to pull out units; chimney work, minor guttering works. (With new kitchen - estimated these additional works could be about £8-10k.)
We have renegotiated offer price to include the cost of the four main works to be done and vendor accepted (her previous buyer pulled out mid way through - no idea why). However to get all these works done it's going to leave us very short in savings for anything else (we're using a large amount of our savings for our deposit so that, at our age (50s), we can have a very small mortgage which we can pay off quickly. The alternative if we don't go ahead with this property is that we try to find a more modern house but in the current market any decent house is at the top of our budget and due to competition, almost always there's a bidding war and we simply don't have the financial flexiblity to compete like that. Saying that, what we might end up spending on this current property is probably slightly less, or equivalent to what we would have to offer on a more modern house, that's possibly smaller.
So.. do we proceed with this house and try to get the work done and stick within our budget, or forget it and try to get something more modern and just pray that eventually someone will accept our offer?
Neither myself or hubby are DIY-skilled, or know anyone in the trade, and he's concerned that once builders start knocking about with plaster etc ref the damp, they're going to find more problems and the house will start costing more and more ££. (Though to be fair, the damp survey didn't seem to indicate that there would be any surprises.)
WWYD? Thanks and please, kind responses please - nerves somewhat fraught!!