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Is it me or them?

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Dodgyormymind · 06/04/2022 20:52

Changed name and will change some details and keep brief, but other facts will be right.

We accepted an offer over asking price in March. Buyer visited alone but was buying for herself and partner. She is over retirement age. Keen to move quickly. EA said she would be happy to pay for us to rent if needed.

Visited again shortly after and immediately said she needed work done to make suitable for her partner.

Had survey carried out, heard nothing for two weeks, then she wants further expert opinions on some issues which are not founded to our knowledge but she is entitled and sensible to check. Maybe EA worded this wrong to me.

Last week she was speaking to a builder re work, we know the builder so not hearsay.

Monday I was told by EA that she has pulled out. However a relative who has not seen the house wants to buy. Same price.

This is in writing from her solicitor, who will also represent the relative.

EA is promising Memorandum of Sale but not yet received.

Further survey this week. I wasn't home, but initial buyer turned up without notification and was pushing surveyor to find things, which apparently he couldn't agree with. My representative heard this going on.

I'm being suspicious, thinking somehow it's a ploy for somebody to get to exchange and reduce offer. I only found out from email chain between solicitors that contracts had been shared, but not with me. Obviously she thought we were further on than I did.

I don't want to accept less if it's some type of scam but don't want to lose the property I'm buying.

Am I overthinking or does anybody else think it's dodgy?

There are other things that don't add up but I don't want to be recognised.

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Aria20 · 07/04/2022 08:30

So the original buyer has pulled out but a member of her family is now buying it? That sounds very odd. I'd say no thanks and tell the estate agent no more contact from her or her family!

Dodgyormymind · 07/04/2022 08:53

@Aria20 can I just ask why?

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Aria20 · 07/04/2022 09:00

Well why has she pulled out yet seems happy for a family member to buy instead? Also why is she still getting involved and turning up to surveys that aren't relevant to her if she's not buying it? Why is she trying to influence the outcome? It's just messing around and trying to get money off. I would not trust them.

Whinge · 07/04/2022 09:01

[quote Dodgyormymind]@Aria20 can I just ask why?
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I'm not the poster in question. But why would you sell to the relative who hasn't seen the house? Also the original buyer has written to you saying they've pulled out, but then still comes round unannouned to pester the surveyer, and you don't think this is a reason enough to cut contact? Confused

Everything about this situation is dodgy. Walk away, go back on the market and find a new buyer.

Dodgyormymind · 07/04/2022 09:35

You are all confirming my thoughts. EA doesn't see a problem.

I'm worried about going back on market and delaying things.

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Beercrispsandnuts · 07/04/2022 09:37

Is the family member buying it for her to live in? Have they viewed it? I’d not pull out but ask more questions.

Mischance · 07/04/2022 09:37

I was messed around by a whole string of buyers before I sold my house in 2020. EA kept telling me that each one would come good and to go with them. when my instincts told me otherwise - go with your instincts!

If it sounds dodgy - it is dodgy!

Mischance · 07/04/2022 09:38

Oh - and by the way - all the potential buyers lied through their teeth.

Whinge · 07/04/2022 09:41

I'm worried about going back on market and delaying things.

I understand the worry, but you only accepted the offer in March. It's been a couple of weeks, which is no time at all when it comes to buying a property. I think it's much better to go back on the market now, rather than in a couple of months time when it all inevitably falls apart.

Dodgyormymind · 07/04/2022 09:47

@Beercrispsandnuts apparently not. She has realised property is not right for her but he wants to extend.

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Dodgyormymind · 07/04/2022 10:35

Going back on the market. 🤞🏻

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40Jem · 07/04/2022 10:48

Sounds very dodgy to me too. You are absolutely right to go back on the market. And let your agent know you don't want to deal with that family again.

brainhurts · 07/04/2022 11:43

Think you have made the right decision in going back on the market, if the relative wants it he will make contact

Dodgyormymind · 07/04/2022 11:57

@Whinge all my senses are tingling, I was asking for opinions, not disagreeing in any way.

Was worried I was being paranoid, which I why I posted.

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