First Time Buyers can be easily spooked by a survey. They don’t always realise that the surveyor has to point out every little thing and that lots of them aren’t serious or don’t warrant money off.
I agree that FTB can be easily influenced by family or just a bit precious and lacking awareness of the bigger buying and selling picture and that it doesn’t all revolve around them….that often compromise is needed to stop chains falling apart, and that sometimes there’s nothing to be done to prevent it.
The EA should be able to gauge if the FTB is extremely green and knows nothing. Of course, they can then be manipulated or exploited too.
On balance though, a FTB that the EA has checked out - ie checked to see they have a mortgage in principle and have evidenced their deposit and can name a solicitor - has more benefits than downsides usually.
OP, get your paperwork ready - evidence of mortgage in principle, ID documents which evidence name and address, bank statements to show evdifwnce of deposit, etc and look into which solicitor you will use now. If you have all that stuff in a file, the EA will take you more seriously and be more likely to o recommend you to the seller as a FTB who is ready to proceed, rather than one who doesn’t know where their arse is.
Oh and top tip - always return any requests for info by return if possible and within 24 hours. Don’t be the pest who everyone is waiting for documentation from.
Good luck. The fact you’re asking is in itself a very good sign.