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Gazundered and ultimatum rant!

37 replies

Fleurstar · 16/03/2022 19:47

Hi all,

This is my first thread so please be kind - very fragile from the stress that is house buying and purchasing in England!!

So.. here goes the rant I’m hoping will make me feel better 😫
House on the market Nov 2021, accepted an offer £4000 under asking as had seen a house we wanted to offer on. Offered on our purchase a week later and accepted. Solicitors instructed and survey ordered for our purchase. Complete chain of our buyer (in rental) - us - our purchase (deceased estate and already has probate).

Everything going well until February this year - most things all ready by this stage. Our buyer comes for final viewing and brings along a relative (ourselves and EA not aware of any further visitors). This relative was a chartered surveyor. Looked around house for about an hour (small 3 bed semi with no garage). Nothing raised and last words were ‘very excited and the next time I’m here it’ll be with the keys’. Contracts all signed and with solicitors.

The following Monday after the third and final viewing on the Saturday, we receive an email from our EA saying our buyer wants us to speak to next door to see if they’ve seen their ‘significantly sagging roof’. We’d never noticed anything and didn’t effect our property, but anyway we spoke with neighbours who weren’t aware and didn’t believe it to be sagging. Our buyer wants them/us to report to NHBC (property has 5 years remaining). At this point we say no, not our property nor our warranty to get involved in, had it been on our property then we potentially could have. Buyer decides she wants a homebuyers survey for peace of mind. Ordered surveyor who called me to visit on the Tuesday - I say yes no problem. They then call back they need to push back to Friday as the buyer ‘wants to know what their survey includes’! Clearly in no rush. Survey completed no issues arose. Buyer looking to complete 18th March.

Last week came and went with no exchange. Our buyer has decided the title deeds don’t reflect the boundary of the property. There is a tiny rectangular shaped piece of land (1ftx6ft) that is our land at the bottom of the garden that is not fenced in with the property (never needed it and more hassle than it’s worth having it as a tiny awkward strip of the garden) that runs parallel with nextdoors drive (this is at the back of the house). Solicitors (ours and our buyers) agree no issue. Buyer says there is. We suggest chopping back garden section of fence down to access tiny strip of land if required. Buyer says no. We go to original builders legal team - they say there is no problem. There is no dispute with our neighbour and they agree we own this land.

Buyer calls our estate agent Monday to say we either request our neighbours to conduct a TP1 (at their own expense of at least £1000+ and takes 6 months) and buy this land or the property price offered is reduced by… £15,000!!!! Luckily our EA says no.

We don’t want to risk our purchase, but can no longer be held in this emotional torment any longer. I can’t believe all professionals involved agree there is no problem, yet our buyer is convinced it’s worth £15k off the property!!

We have offered ultimatum today, contracts are exchanged by close of business Friday at original offer price, or the property is back on the market for the weekend. Not heard anything yet - given whilst 5pm tomorrow to inform us, if we don’t hear by then we will relist.

What would you do? We feel she has messed us around too much and shown her true colours by trying it on to that extent - so much so that even our EA and solicitors can’t comprehend her actions! EA in full support of relisting.

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EnjoyingTheSilence · 16/03/2022 19:51

I’d relist. Cfs trying it on

thinking123 · 16/03/2022 19:52

No advice but sounds incredibly stressful. I bet The relative is filling their head with nonsense

mumwon · 16/03/2022 19:53

relist or threaten to

Theunamedcat · 16/03/2022 19:55

Relist instantly don't wait till the weekend

gamerchick · 16/03/2022 19:56

Sounds like your neighbours would have a lucky escape. Talk about nightmare. She's searched for something to try it on. I hope you stick to your guns.

jay55 · 16/03/2022 19:56

Realist, there is bugger all on the market in some areas.

Witchymcwitch · 16/03/2022 19:59

I’d relist immediately. Show her you mean business and hopefully put a rocket up her arse.
CF!

123walrus · 16/03/2022 20:05

Yes I’d re list tomorrow so you can have viewings set up at the weekend. If they exchange by Friday, viewings get cancelled. You could ask the property you’re hoping to buy if they’ll give you a short period to find a new buyer.

DPotter · 16/03/2022 20:08

Re-list now so the EA has time to book appointments for the weekend

Turnedacorner · 16/03/2022 20:08

Definitely relist!

Strawmite · 16/03/2022 20:09

Yup put it on the market. Spook them right back, they are being ridiculous.

Movingonup22 · 16/03/2022 20:10

Call the bluff. Relist.

Is it a first time buyer?

The thing re next doors roof is bizarre!!

Fleurstar · 16/03/2022 20:15

Thank you for all agreeing - I feel less delusional!

It’s made us majorly regret being so amenable at every stage - viewings when she’s asked, accepting under offer price, survey at their preferred date rather than when suits us (as it’s us that had to be for the survey), raising queries with our neighbour that weren’t really our business to! We even included things such as our CCTV system, alarm system, garden furniture, electric fireplace and surround, chimnea, shed all at no extra cost!! We thought it was odd when she asked if we were leaving carpets/tiles/built in storage such as under the stairs cupboard. It makes me wonder if shes done this to someone before and in return they left her nothing in the house!

What a stress - one more sleepless night to go before we at least have some control again. EA prepared listing to go live Friday morning - do you think we should put this forward to tomorrow morning even though we said we’d wait until Thursday 5pm for her decision?

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SickAndTiredAgain · 16/03/2022 20:15

I’d relist now. Your buyer has clearly gone looking for something, anything, to complain about to bring the price down. Sounds like a nightmare. You can always cancel the viewings booked for the weekend if they sort their life out and exchange.

Fleurstar · 16/03/2022 20:16

Not a FTB - relocated for work reasons and rented until found somewhere. Said she has ‘bought and sold numerous properties before’ when I asked how many, she said 5.

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Strawmite · 16/03/2022 20:22

FWIW our buyer a year ago offered 15k over asking to get the house and then 3 weeks before exchange offered 17k LESS because they wanted to replace all the windows?! We knocked off 2k and said otherwise we will wouldn’t move. Have been our new house for a year Grin

LoudingVoice · 16/03/2022 20:22

Jesus tell them to do one, relist tomorrow morning and tbh I’d be wary of taking anything they say seriously they sound like an absolute nightmare.

CecilyTheWake · 16/03/2022 20:23

I would relist and sell to someone else. She will be a nightmare.

Sotired22 · 16/03/2022 20:28

We had this situation before, very similar. Buyer started looking for non existent problems and nit picking close to exchange (after everything being fine for weeks and her having 3 long viewings and a perfect survey etc) and tried to demand £10k off the price for no apparent reason. We were desperate not to lose the house we were buying so agreed to £5k reduction if she exchanged asap. Still dragged her feet and made endless problems. She did buy it in the end but it was very stressful and if it ever happened to me again I’d immediately tell them where to go and relist straight away. These people are time wasters and unreasonable.

Knittedfairies · 16/03/2022 20:28

Definitely call her bluff; good luck!

Fifipop185 · 16/03/2022 20:31

Relist your house first thing in the morning OP. They're playing CF games with you and I would call their bluff early.

We had similar and relisted our house the morning after our buyers wanted a price drop of £10k 3 days before exchange. They had to swallow their pride pretty sharpish and we exchanged at the agreed price on time. We were going to leave champagne and flowers for them after completion but no way! They were lucky I cleaned the place before leaving. Good luck!

KleineDracheKokosnuss · 16/03/2022 21:00

Relist immediately. You’ll get new viewings on Saturday most likely. You just tell them the buyer fell through as she wasn’t able to get organised.

KleineDracheKokosnuss · 16/03/2022 21:01

It’s a sellers market. And it’s risen since you last listed.

GreenClock · 16/03/2022 21:40

I wouldn’t wait until 5pm tomorrow. The agent will have time to arrange weekend viewings tomorrow if it goes back on first thing. You could have a new, better offer on Monday!

Londongent · 16/03/2022 21:45

Relist at a sightly higher price than you originally listed, give her till the end of the day to agree to exchange by Friday. 100% call her bluff