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Would you move, if you were us?

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GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 24/02/2022 21:14

Our wee terrace was meant to be our starter home when we bought 9 years ago. It was 750 sq ft, 3 bedrooms, though two aren't much bigger than box rooms. No parking, tiny courtyard garden (which is an absolute sun trap!), fantastic central location in the conservation area.

We're still here, we've had two DC, one of each, and we've extended a bit - knocked through and into the side return to make a large kitchen diner instead of a galley kitchen, and put in a downstairs loo.

We genuinely love it, it feels like home. We've been on the market twice in the last nine years, but never went through with the sale. We love the location - it's so handy for everything (school, transport, city centre, shops, entertainment, countryside - it really couldn't be better situated).

We'd always assumed we'd have to move as the DC got older as they'd need more space - but do we really have to? They do have a room each, albeit small. As they get towards adolescence, they'll be walking distance to school and town and the train to London. Would that compensate for a bedroom you can't swing a cat in?

We're in our mid 40s, and I'm not thrilled about the thought of starting a new 25 year mortgage. We've got £175k to pay on our current house, and we've been able to make regular overpayments. In the current climate I'm just not sure taking on a bigger mortgage is a great idea - not to mention rising fuel costs and having to heat a bigger house. Our current house is a mid-terrace, and we could definitely make it more energy efficient.

We could possibly extend a bit further, into the loft, though it's not big enough to make a dramatic difference.

If you've got this far, well done, and what do you think? Would we be doing a disservice to the DC to not get them more space as they grow? Or are we best staying in our little home and making the best of it?

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Jackiebrambles · 25/02/2022 18:41

I am so glad I found this thread, we are in a similar situation but with very unequal sized kids bedrooms - ours are 9 and 7. Plus both dh and i pretty much wfh all the time now so we both need a permanent work space each. Our kitchen is still galley with tiny table at the end so no good for entertaining. We have permission to extend to a kitchen diner but that doesn’t solve our bedroom problem so we are considering moving. But a) I love our road and neighbours and it’s walking distance to schools (primary and secondary) shops, station and everything we need inc lovely green space and b) it would be a significant mortgage increase to get what we want and we’d need to move to a much less convenient location. But dh would love a drive and a bigger garden! I swear we’ve been going round and round in circles!

Nemorth · 25/02/2022 19:03

I'm an introvert and live in a smaller house than you.

As long as I have a space I can escape to, it's fine.

dewl · 25/02/2022 19:38

Same; I'm an introvert and total home-body but prefer smaller homes.

Flingingmelon · 25/02/2022 19:54

We are in the same situation. We love our home and it'll still be perfect when we're old.

Our plan is - if DS turns into a massive hulking great rugby player - to rent a bigger house locally for a few years and let ours out.

It will be far cheaper than up size by and downsizing again a few years later

Zonder · 25/02/2022 20:52

Nah I'm an extrovert and would always want a big house to have lots of people over in.

PeakyBlender · 26/02/2022 14:48

What about making the loft a bedroom and knocking the two box rooms together for another one?

Ishouldaknownbetter · 26/02/2022 15:05

My cousin has a bed that pulls down from the wall?
It's amazing.
Don't know if this idea would help?

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