I have a neighbour that I share a driveway with, the only access to my house is via that driveway.
She decided to put tiny fences at the entrance to purposely make it difficult to enter because she said people (not me, delivery drivers etc) were running over the grass. To get in we have to swing out on the wrong side of the road as it creates a tight right angled narrow turning. We politely asked her to remove them but she refused, and even got her lawyers onto it who said she could do it because it was in her property. Fair enough. We just learned to live with it, although she still keeps blaming me for smashing into it when I haven’t.
Recently she installed cameras everywhere and goes nuts at me every time a driver /workman/anyone stops outside her house. I can’t exactly control these people, I can’t even see that bit of the drive from my house! I told her this but she insists I’m responsible for them if they have come to see me.
She went crazy once when my two year old put one foot on her grass as we were walking out, and absolutely ballistic when the kids accidentally lost a bit of their toy gun in her garden. She threatened to sue me because I asked someone to repair the fence between our properties and he walked on her side. She keeps accusing us of cutting her plants when we didn’t touch them. It’s like this all the time and it’s stressing me out. She leaves me loads of messages, and shouts down the phone. She makes her daughter do this to me as well, she’s even more aggressive than her mum!
My question is, should I block them both from calling me? What should I say if they come over and ask why I’ve done it? I just want a quiet life! I think she is actually insane as there is no way to reason with her.