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They are going to be dicks just before exchange, aren’t they?

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Siriisatwat · 04/11/2021 08:58

Had an offer accepted on a house in January- only just got a completion date for the end of this month.

The vendors have dicked about all the way through. Losing paperwork, not letting the surveyor in three times, despite them being able to say exactly which time and date suited (the last time they wouldn’t let him in it was because she had just made a sandwich and didn’t want him there while she was eating).

In April, the estate agent called us and said they would like us to up our offer as they said they could get more for the property if they were to put it on the market now. Told them to crack on abs do it then….they changed their minds.

They did the same thing in August; again, we said fine, don’t sell it to us then.

I know they are going to pull the same trick now. The house would probably go on the market for at least 10k more if they were to put it on now looking at similar. That would have have taken it out of affordability for us anyway.

Chances are they will back off again when we say no (we couldn’t even afford a grand more and I’m not pandering to them even if I could afford it).

They went awol for 6 weeks at a time, no one could get in touch with them. I honestly don’t know what their problem is. Either sell your bloody house or don’t.

They seemed so upfront when we went to view! They are a couple of GPs in their 40s. I don’t know what they are playing at.

Why are some people such dicks?

And yes, we have continuously been looking for other properties but there was/is nothing else even remotely suitable in our tiny budget. Nothing has come up in all that time or we would have told them to sod their house.

Thankfully we are in rented, even though it’s covered in black mould (the rental market here has gone crazy, luckily our rent hasn’t been put up in two years, but we couldn’t afford to rent another property here now), so we want to get out. So if they do start messing around, it’s not like we have to get out, we won’t be giving a months notice until contracts are exchanged.

This whole thing has just been a nightmare.

Apparently they couldn’t remember if they had put the (really blood big) extension on their own house Confused. It took them 6 weeks to remember that they did. They kept saying they needed to check paperwork and remember dates. How could anyone not remember building an extension 6 years ago?! They made a huge song and dance over it. You can’t make this up, I don’t know what their game is.

Sorry for the moan, I just want this over with.

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chillied · 04/11/2021 09:02

Amazing. Hold on in there.

Siriisatwat · 04/11/2021 09:04

I will try! I just don’t get why people have to be so strange.

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Summersdreaming · 04/11/2021 13:07

Shock you have the patience of a Saint!!

AchillesLastStand · 04/11/2021 14:02

This all sounds horrendous OP. I bought this year, put an offer in in May and moved mid-September. That was stressful enough. I’m never moving again. We were in a rental previously with mould and mildew so I know how awful it is to live with.

The vendors may think they’ll get more money for their house but the market where I am has really slowed down and with the potential for increases in mortgage rates, they may not sell it as easily as they think they will.

Do the vendors have another house they’re buying? Surely they want to move there.

If you really want the house, and it sounds like you do, you need to hang in there and really pile on the pressure. Good luck!

DaisyNGO · 04/11/2021 14:13

@Summersdreaming

Shock you have the patience of a Saint!!
You really do I actually advised my sister to pull out of a purchase/sale that took a year.

She hung in there and it went fine.

The level of dicking about that went on, I couldn't believe any of it. But she had the patience and it all came good!

alwayswrighty · 04/11/2021 14:21

I work in a mortgage brokers. I hate people like this. If they do try tell them to get stuffed. Honestly people seem to have got really deluded with house prices, etc lately.

Bear in mind there have been a few down valuations lately so they may be able to get a higher offer but if the mortgage lender doesn't value the property the same the sale will fall through (potentially).

Kipperandarthur · 04/11/2021 14:22

They sound extraordinary. Who on earth doesn’t let the surveyor in because they’ve just made a sandwich.

Yes I’m sure they could get more for their house now but they are the ones who have dragged this all out. Difficult to tell what will happen with this level of idiotic vendors. Good luck.

MenopauseSucks · 04/11/2021 14:26

One vendor decided she didn't want to sell her house anymore but neglected to tell her solicitors & the estate agent. We'd done all the surveys, etc.
It was only when we doorstepped her that she admitted she'd changed her mind. Kept us hanging around for about 3 months.

TheEconomista · 04/11/2021 14:28

Where are they going? Do they have an onward purchase they are very keen on?

Tbh I'd be worried that they pull out at the last minute, rather than demand more money. It sounds like they are pulling every delay tactic possible. Are you sure they still want to move?

Siriisatwat · 04/11/2021 14:43

There is an onward chain - they are dicking them around too by the sounds of things.

It’s not a case of really loving this house and wanting it.

We would have pulled out if anything remotely decent came on the market over the past few months, it hasn’t.

We have to get out of rented accommodation, we’re paying double what our mortgage would be in rent and we are sick to death of it, we’ve had to move 6 times in 8 years due to landlords selling or wanting houses back, we just want some stability as well.

One of dh family says WE are the ones taking advantage of them as house prices here have risen significantly this year and they could get so much more now. Not my fault they have messed around this long!

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Siriisatwat · 04/11/2021 14:44

Believe me, I won’t think we are actually moving until we have the keys!

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Siriisatwat · 04/11/2021 14:46

Oh and the blue they are buying - THOSE vendors kept going awol too. I’m in a chain of arseholes!

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Siriisatwat · 04/11/2021 14:47

It’s been really, really difficult to unpick everything that’s going on with both of them.

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Reallybadidea · 04/11/2021 14:59

One of dh family says WE are the ones taking advantage of them as house prices here have risen significantly this year and they could get so much more now. Not my fault they have messed around this long!

Assuming they're not downsizing, then presumably they would also need to pay more for the house they're buying? So basically they want to have their cake and eat it - get you to increase your offer while paying the same themselves? If their vendor has tried the same trick then it's slightly more understandable, but then as you say, they should have got a move on!

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