So the surveyor has just called me and I'm in tears. This is the second house we're trying to buy. Already spent around 1.5k on previous house that got stuck in a long chain, we pulled out, found this one and spent a further 3k on solicitor, booking space at new nursery (for DD), and full structural survey. Surveyor is very, very negative. Damp on one side of the house due to loft extension and dormer that was done on the cheap. There may be a leak in the area where the dormer is attached to the neighbours' roof, - also difficult to access. More damp in the kitchen. Some lights don't work. Loft eaves area not insulated. Boiler is weird, he's never heard of the type / make. And so on...
I'm soooo over this whole thing. This house buying process has cost me so much in my mental health. I'm seriously starting to question our motivations, reasons for moving, reasons for anything. HOW DO PEOPLE EVER BUY A HOUSE??
Or is this completely normal and I should just brush it off? Are structural survey always picky and negative? Are they ever positive, as in, "your house is fine, you just need to replace a few light bulbs"??
It's not a house I'm totally excited about because after a year of searching in a crazy London market, I honestly can't get excited about anything. We have been priced out of the exciting houses' market by about 100k ...
I don't know what to do anymore.
What would you do?