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Nightmare vendor stories

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Anyother · 05/10/2021 18:44

I'm in the process of trying to buy a dream/ forever home. But the vendors have behaved absolutely awfully. They're very fickle and have had their heads turned by cash/ higher offers twice now and each time it's fallen through and they've come back to us. They are once again considering another (identical) offer for no other reason other than it's a cash offer - even though they are in no hurry. Everyone who knows the situation has advised me to walk away. But there are no other suitable houses!

Please tell me your stories of nightmare vendors that you bought the house from anyway/ walked away from. I need some distraction!

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maofteens · 06/10/2021 12:04

Why is the agent still marketing the property?
It is the awful system here that allows this sort of thing.
I don't have any 'nightmare vendors', but I have had one pull out just before exchange simply because they changed their minds ( they sold two years later for less than I offered so some justice). Most recently I was led to believe my seller would move into rental, I wasted two months only for them to say they needed to port their mortgage so had to buy, so after another month waiting fir them to find somewhere I pulled out. My next house was advertised as chain free, up against stamp duty so my solicitor moved heaven and earth, only for the seller to pull out due to illness (the agent then called day before stamp duty deadline saying he was better and prepared to proceed, but too late and I still wouldn't have made the stamp duty deadline).
I just wish people would be more honest and communicate if they are having problems.

PeeAche · 06/10/2021 15:34

We put our beautiful 2 bedroom "bursting at the seams" house on the market during the 'Rona, and received a near-asking-price offer within 7 days. Chuffed!

Now "proceed-able" (a must during Covid times) we headed out to market to buy a dream house for our growing family.

We viewed so many dreary, over priced, underwhelming houses that I just never thought we'd find anything. And we had our own buyers on the hook, so we really didn't want to waste any time.

2 weeks into our search, a new property popped up. Slightly smaller than we wanted but with a south facing garden that had views across to the black mountains in Wales... no small feat considering that we live in England! The property was being marketed on PurpleBricks and so we were given the tour by the owner herself. She seemed... quirky. But friendly. She mentioned that she'd had buyers pull out before and now she was in a rush to sell. Later we submitted our offer via the web portal.

She countered with a sad story about how she was in a "rush" and chain free (going into a new build) and if we came up to her asking price, she would take it straight off the market. We did. She did. Champagne flowed.

In the coming days, her behaviour became erratic. Just 2 days into conveyancing, she asked us to confirm our desired completion date. We were happy to pencil something in to work towards but she was being odd. She called. A lot. I had to ask her to stop hassling me during working hours. It was constant. She seemed to have nothing better to do! She said she just felt "anxious" because she was "doing it all herself" so we tried to be patient with her. We actually pitied her.

We scheduled a survey and she clammed up. She offered instead to flog us one from a previous buyer who had "dropped out". We declined but she wouldn't stop banging on about it. Eventually we explained that we might consider a lesser survey if we could see the full structural survey from her last buyer. But that we couldn't give her any money for it. Our conveyancing solicitor would go mad if he found out we'd been transferring her money on the side. I mean... c'mon! So, I asked her for the contact details of her previous buyer. She hated this. She cried. She said he was "mean" and would "make up nasty lies about her". She said he'd dropped out because she'd asked him for "a bit more time" just before exchange. She said he called her "crazy". Red flag.

We calmed her down (having decided ourselves that she was pretty nuts... but you're buying the house not the woman, right?) and explained that we wouldn't contact him for his old survey (never bloody wanted to anyway) but we would definitely need to book our own survey. Which we did and the house passed. Phew.

She waffled on during phone calls and voicemails about how we needed to hurry up. She needed this done now. She needed to have moved house yesterday. "Her life was in boxes" and on and on.

And yet, strangely, when we arrived to measure up and have one last look around before, about 4 days before exchange, her house was not remotely packed. Even her ex boyfriends coats were still lined up in the bedroom.

We had a bad feeling, but exchange was just around the corner. We just needed to limp over the line....

And then

24 hours before exchange, she sent a short text:

"I can't do this. I'm sorry".

Suddenly the daily phone calls dried up. We spent the weekend wringing our hands. It was torture. Eventually we got her on the phone on Monday morning. We offered her more money. We offered to pay to store her belongings. She just said she needed more time. The stamp duty holiday was moving out of view for us. She asked if we could wait until November. It was April. We told her to shove it. Blocked her number. Moved on.

She cost us about £9,000 in additional stamp duty (we missed the June deadline) and about £2,000 in surveys and solicitors fees.

We've been in our new home for 3 months now and it is The One. I'm so glad we didn't end up buying the crazy lady's house. I can't imagine better than this! It all works out in the end...

augustusbloom · 06/10/2021 17:07

@PeeAche

We put our beautiful 2 bedroom "bursting at the seams" house on the market during the 'Rona, and received a near-asking-price offer within 7 days. Chuffed!

Now "proceed-able" (a must during Covid times) we headed out to market to buy a dream house for our growing family.

We viewed so many dreary, over priced, underwhelming houses that I just never thought we'd find anything. And we had our own buyers on the hook, so we really didn't want to waste any time.

2 weeks into our search, a new property popped up. Slightly smaller than we wanted but with a south facing garden that had views across to the black mountains in Wales... no small feat considering that we live in England! The property was being marketed on PurpleBricks and so we were given the tour by the owner herself. She seemed... quirky. But friendly. She mentioned that she'd had buyers pull out before and now she was in a rush to sell. Later we submitted our offer via the web portal.

She countered with a sad story about how she was in a "rush" and chain free (going into a new build) and if we came up to her asking price, she would take it straight off the market. We did. She did. Champagne flowed.

In the coming days, her behaviour became erratic. Just 2 days into conveyancing, she asked us to confirm our desired completion date. We were happy to pencil something in to work towards but she was being odd. She called. A lot. I had to ask her to stop hassling me during working hours. It was constant. She seemed to have nothing better to do! She said she just felt "anxious" because she was "doing it all herself" so we tried to be patient with her. We actually pitied her.

We scheduled a survey and she clammed up. She offered instead to flog us one from a previous buyer who had "dropped out". We declined but she wouldn't stop banging on about it. Eventually we explained that we might consider a lesser survey if we could see the full structural survey from her last buyer. But that we couldn't give her any money for it. Our conveyancing solicitor would go mad if he found out we'd been transferring her money on the side. I mean... c'mon! So, I asked her for the contact details of her previous buyer. She hated this. She cried. She said he was "mean" and would "make up nasty lies about her". She said he'd dropped out because she'd asked him for "a bit more time" just before exchange. She said he called her "crazy". Red flag.

We calmed her down (having decided ourselves that she was pretty nuts... but you're buying the house not the woman, right?) and explained that we wouldn't contact him for his old survey (never bloody wanted to anyway) but we would definitely need to book our own survey. Which we did and the house passed. Phew.

She waffled on during phone calls and voicemails about how we needed to hurry up. She needed this done now. She needed to have moved house yesterday. "Her life was in boxes" and on and on.

And yet, strangely, when we arrived to measure up and have one last look around before, about 4 days before exchange, her house was not remotely packed. Even her ex boyfriends coats were still lined up in the bedroom.

We had a bad feeling, but exchange was just around the corner. We just needed to limp over the line....

And then

24 hours before exchange, she sent a short text:

"I can't do this. I'm sorry".

Suddenly the daily phone calls dried up. We spent the weekend wringing our hands. It was torture. Eventually we got her on the phone on Monday morning. We offered her more money. We offered to pay to store her belongings. She just said she needed more time. The stamp duty holiday was moving out of view for us. She asked if we could wait until November. It was April. We told her to shove it. Blocked her number. Moved on.

She cost us about £9,000 in additional stamp duty (we missed the June deadline) and about £2,000 in surveys and solicitors fees.

We've been in our new home for 3 months now and it is The One. I'm so glad we didn't end up buying the crazy lady's house. I can't imagine better than this! It all works out in the end...

Omg this story is wild. I love/hate it, and so glad that it all worked out for you (it really always does, IMO).
whataboutbob · 06/10/2021 17:56

Jesus @PeeAche that would have driven me round the bend. She’ll probably still be living there, Miss Havisham style, with the ex’s coats in her bedroom when she’s 80 Shock.

Anyother · 07/10/2021 14:59

@maofteens I hope if you're still looking everything works out for you soon.

@PeeAche wow... she sounds unhinged

So our sellers have decided to drop us (again) for overseas cash buyers. I hope everyone who says it works out for the best in the end, is right. No suitable houses in our area feel like crying and feel like a fool for trusting them again.

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PeeAche · 07/10/2021 16:00

[quote Anyother]@maofteens I hope if you're still looking everything works out for you soon.

@PeeAche wow... she sounds unhinged

So our sellers have decided to drop us (again) for overseas cash buyers. I hope everyone who says it works out for the best in the end, is right. No suitable houses in our area feel like crying and feel like a fool for trusting them again.

[/quote]
Repeat after me, OP: "it will all be alright in the end. If it isn't alright yet, it isn't the end"

Now, it's 2 minutes to 4. Make up a reason why the kids are allowed on the iPads, and go and make yourself a gin.

Anyother · 07/10/2021 18:10

Thanks, @PeeAche, I really hope you're right... "it'll be alright in the end..."

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