This sort of thing reminds me of a "friend" of mine (totally went down in my estimation after this).
I can't remember the full details as it was years ago now but she mentioned that they were a bit behind with getting ready to move the next day so I offered to go and help her with it. I arrived at 8.00am on moving day (her house was well over an hours drive away).
I knocked and knocked, eventually she stumbled to the door in her dressing gown - overslept due to being in the pub the night before and getting a lock in until the small hours.
She then proceeded to sit in the kitchen casually drinking coffee - did gear up a bit admittedly when the moving van arrived.
Neither her or her husband had packed anything. I packed the kitchen which took me about 4 hours, they were both just lamely wandering from room to room looking more and more confused and dazed.
The husband in particular (very very intelligent man but no common sense) was sat in the study going through years and years of paperwork and deciding what to bin and what to take - just sat there sorting through stuff without any sense of urgency whilst I was hysterically running round, stripping beds etc - the moving guys were getting more and more pissed off etc.
The buyers arrived at 2.00pm as agreed - they reluctantly agreed to go and have some lunch in the pub opposite. We did not get finished until well after 7.00pm, they left loads of stuff which they had to go back the next day for and unbelievably, had to borrow one of the buyers moving vans (they emptied it onto the driveway) to cart away loads of stuff as their van was not big enough.
I was so sorry for those buyers - particularly that there was no time to clean, as I emptied the cupboards in the kitchen they were filthy but it was a massive 5 bedroom house and I just did not have time.
All these years later and I still think about it and cringe. I don't think my friend does at all.
Last time I moved my kitchen was all packed up bar the kettle and toaster about a week before hand! In fact everything was apart from clothes and the bed I think. I managed to move out of my 4 bedroom house in about 2 hours.