I bought in my 20s what was then a pretty shit area
Borrowed £10k off my parents, which they made me pay back monthly including interest but it was enough to add to some savings and get myself a 95% mortgage for a 2 bed place
Rented the spare room out and could just about pay bills but it wasn’t a wild few years
I was very envious of my friends and colleagues who were living in fun flatshares in Fulham and Clapham, but I chipped away at the mortgage and the flat went up
When I remortgaged after 2 years, I paid them back and was also able to get a better LTV that brought the payments down a lot but those first 2 years were a pinch
Then met ExH, who also had a 2 bed flat so we lived in his for a bit and rented mine out. Then rented both out, remortgaged both and bought a 4 bed house in an up and coming area
It doubled in value in 5 years from £500k to just under a million, so when we split up, I had a £250k lump sum from the sale
Went back to my flat for a bit, met currentDH who also had a flat with a bit of equity in it, sold both flats, bought a 4 bed house in a v nice area
Sold that after 4 years (to FTBs! They do go straight to houses) and bought a 5bed in a v nice part of zone2
Our mortgage is absolutely eye watering but will be paid off in 10 years
But it’s taken 15 years to get me from first purchase to nice house, much of it spent living in grotty places!
Those friends who spent their 20s in the lovely flatshares are now tearing their hair out with kids in flats so as dull as it was at the time, I made the right decision