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Those that have completed their Sale, but not bought

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areyouhavingagiraffe · 05/09/2021 09:45

Hi guys, thought I would start a little thread for this. Anyone else in the same boat? I was due to exchange on both Sale and Purchase, however a few week prior to this, there were some red flags around my purchase (loft, lack of building regs, I know the subject has been done to death). I made the decision, after getting advice from various people to withdraw from the purchase. I decided to proceed with my Sale. I was selling a leasehold flat, I got a really good amount for it (far more than anticipated), and there are so many issues around selling leasehold, it was an absolute ball ache and so stressful, hence I made the decision to break the chain.
I am also in the fortunate position of being able to live with my folks; they have a large house, and as well as my room, I have an office, and the entire contents of my flat in their outbuilding.
The market was mental when I was looking back in April, and I felt so deflated every time I viewed place...... until the house (which I walked away from) came along. I hated the look from the outside, but inside it was lovely and I would have been able to move it without doing anything. Was huge downstairs, so much space and I had planned my christmas there already :-(. I did make compromises (not liking the kerbside appeal), and I offered well over asking, however with the issues raised I just didn't want to take the risk.
I have been at my folks for five weeks, and have started house hunting again; but I am just back to that deflated feeling again. I don't like any of the houses I have seen, and I can't understand the market. I feel like prices are higher, but then also lots being reduced, and coming back on the market. It seems a little calmer, but certainly less stock coming to the market over last few weeks. I am now wondering whether I should have just gone ahead. I was nervous about resale of the house, and it was not my "forever" house, if there is such a thing, and it was causing me sleepless nights. There was also a chance that future Lenders may not lend on property, it all sort of depends on how diligent any future buyers solicitor is.
I just hope this horrible feeling will go away.....
I am in a fortunate position now, chain free, lots of cash and am proceedable. My folks don't take a penny off me (I help out with shopping, chores etc) and I have a good relationship with them, and it's not like I have had to uproot my life (they are in the same area) and I don't have kids.
I just wondered if there was anyone else in my position, where you have completed and still looking, and whether any positive stories about not regretting the "one that I walked away from".

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Agadorsparticus · 06/10/2021 15:26

Thanks Giraffe and hopeful house vibes sending your way. After one failed purchase I really need a smooth purchase this time. I love my Mum but squeezing 4 of us into her 2 bed bungalow is tough, I miss my things that are in storage.

areyouhavingagiraffe · 06/10/2021 15:59

@Agadorsparticus, I am also staying with my folks. Although it is just them and now me (so 3 of us) in a large house, and even have a space for an office for me. My stuff is in an outbuilding in their garden. SO, I know I am lucky but still....I just worry so much about "what if I can never find anywhere" - silly I know

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Eastie77Returns · 07/10/2021 13:37

@areyouhavingagiraffe you live and learn, I had literally never heard of Havering-atte-bower beforeGrin. It looks lovely, I’m sorry the house didn’t work out and fingers crossed something suitable comes along soon.

Congrats @Agadorsparticus!

My update is we eventually gave up on the house we had an offer accepted on as our vendor showed zero signs of finding an onward purchase and even the EA was pushing us to look at other houses they were listing. We’ve now had an offer accepted on another property in an ideal location. But in almost comic timing I’ve just received a message from a different EA for the dream property I was outbid on by a cash buyer a few weeks ago. The sale has fallen through so EA would like to know if I’m still interested. Argghhh. If he’d called a couple of days ago I would have gladly gone for it! As it is, I don’t want to mess my current vendor around so am sticking with this property and hoping it all works out…

Eastie77Returns · 07/10/2021 15:02

Well I went online to show a friend the house I’m now meant to be buying and there is no trace of it. It doesn’t appear on any of the property portals, I filtered the search to include Sold STC. It has disappeared from my saved properties in Rightmove and doesn’t appear on the EA’s website either, again even when I look under STC houses. I emailed the EA and left a message and no response.

So, so fed up with this process. If I haven’t heard back by the end of the day I will contact the other EA who came back regarding the dream house. But I’m just pessimistic about anything working out.

Agadorsparticus · 07/10/2021 18:13

Pessimistic is so right!. In theory I should be planning and getting excited about our new home but the joy has been completely sucked out of the process, it's so difficult to be able to hope it works out. We don't want to tell the kids and have their hopes dashed again.

areyouhavingagiraffe · 08/10/2021 09:15

@Eastie77Returns, WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Eastie77Returns · 08/10/2021 09:50

Estate agent just called me. The vendor has changed his mind and property is no longer for sale. I actually just laughed, said thanks for letting me know and put the phone down. I think I’m in low grade shock but I have so much work to get on with today I don’t even have the time to process this. I really can’t believe it. I guess the blessing is I found out now and not further down the line.

areyouhavingagiraffe · 08/10/2021 11:20

@Eastie77Returns, this is an actual f*&king shit show. Honestly, how ridiculous. Yes, count your blessings that it is happened now. You are well rid, onwards and upwards, onto better things. There is a reason this happened and soon it will become apparent why

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Eastie77Returns · 08/10/2021 11:50

@areyouhavingagiraffe - it's totally shambolic but to be honest, the writing was on the wall from the beginning. I posted about this vendor on another thread. There was so much confusion around the sale in the first place (EA originally thought it was a probate sale, then turned out the vendor was not dead, then more confusion..).

I think it is all for the best and hopefully as you say it's all happened for a reason.

I have just spoken to the EA for the dream house I was outbid on last month as he informed me yesterday the cash buyer pulled out. I've offered again and the vendor has just accepted. It is the house I've loved the most of all the 15+ houses I've viewed in the last few months. I just can't get my hopes up though. Let's see how this pans out.

areyouhavingagiraffe · 08/10/2021 11:52

@Eastie77Returns, "turns out the vendor was not dead", this just sums up the whole EA / vendor lying game

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Eastie77Returns · 08/10/2021 20:15

[quote areyouhavingagiraffe]@Eastie77Returns, "turns out the vendor was not dead", this just sums up the whole EA / vendor lying game[/quote]
Yep. I'm just so, so tired of the lack of transparency and outright lies that the different actors in the buying/sale process seem to practice.

When the EA for my dream house contacted me yesterday to say it was back on the market I said I would love to buy it but I naively felt a sense of duty to the vendor I was already under offer with and so was ready to bypass a house I really wanted just to 'do the right thing'. I feel like a complete idiot. I've realised it's dog eat fucking dog in this game and you have to just put yourself first.

Thankfully the dream house was still available when my vendor decided to just pull out this morning. But I'm not even feeling optimistic about it. The owner of the dream house is apparently looking "night and day" for an onward purchase, the EA said she has viewed x amount of properties, they are helping her and are really confident she will find somewhere and I'll be in by Christmas. Sure.

I'm just sitting here detached from it all waiting for the "sorry she's changed her mind.." call. I was going to drive past the house again tomorrow as it's so lovely and wanted the DC to see it but I haven't told them about it as don't want to deal with their disappointment if this latest purchase falls through. It's horrible.

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