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Buyers want to visit before exchanging

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Sylvan92 · 14/07/2021 17:59

We accepted an offer on our house in the first week of March and then found and had an offer accepted on our house at the beginning of May. As April progressed, our buyers were getting a bit fidgety and asked the estate agent if we’d move out and rent. Erm no.
Their solicitors seem to move slowly. For example, despite starting two months before us, the results of their searches only came back two weeks before ours. They have bombarded our solicitor with questions, often repeatedly on the same subject. We’ve answered everything promptly and provided the paperwork when needed. Many of the questions aren’t in her legal remit.
A former owner of the house erected a conservatory without planning permission in the 80s. When we bought the house our conveyancer advised it wasn’t an issue. We actually had a copy of her letter which we forwarded. There was no reply. Our solicitor then suggested we take out an indemnity on it to expedite things. We’ve been waiting ten days for an answer.
The buyers wanted to buy some our fixtures and fittings. My husband suggested they could come visit and look at things rather than continually email. The estate agent has emailed some dates they’ve suggested. Would I be unreasonable to say no until the paperwork is finished and everything’s agreed? I feel they are continually looking for issues and I don’t want anything else being flagged up.
I should add we’re in a very short chain. Our vendors are going to their villa in Portugal and their buyers are first time buyers. This should have been quite simple.

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BackforGood · 16/07/2021 00:40

Everything MarianneUnfaithful said.

I realise buying and selling is stressful, but if I were buying and you refused to let us come to the visit your dh invited us to then I certainly wouldn't be proceeding to the exchange.

lastqueenofscotland · 16/07/2021 02:16

You sound really awkward. Your DH said they should visit to come and speed the process and now you’re putting conditions on that?
Just let them come round. They sound like they’ve been incredibly patient

Twiglets1 · 16/07/2021 05:58

You have only mentioned concerns over not being double vaccinated yet after people said YABU.

If you choose to sell a house in a pandemic you must be prepared for some extra tiny risk (allowing strangers into your property while you are not there, if you ask the agent to do the viewing).

I agree with everyone else - your husband suggested they visit and now they want to visit. There is nothing you can do but be gracious about it.

longwayoff · 16/07/2021 06:09

Have you not sold a house before? You'd better take more care of your buyers because you may not find others in a hurry, if you were being so obstructive with me I'd be thinking very hard about going ahead.

MarianneUnfaithful · 16/07/2021 08:54

You can ask your EAs to handle visits if you don’t want to be in the house with them.

Leave your windows open for a good airing, they will respect mask and sanitiser protocols.

They are, hopefully, about to pay you a huge amount of money, and your inward purchase depends on it, so I think the best thing is to be as accommodating as possible.

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