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One bed flat, two small kids...

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TryingtoBuy2021 · 05/07/2021 16:21

We are moving into rental having sold our flat - we tried to link up the chain and had house after house fall through so to keep our buyers we've gone ahead and sold. We're still looking to buy but in the meantime we need to rent.

Various factors - commute, school, childcare - limit us to looking in a relatively small expensive area. There also aren't too many places coming up so we've sort of just swapped one property search problem for another!

Anyway, today I saw a really lovely one bedroom flat that I think we could make work for all of us but maybe I'm underestimating the challenges. Thoughts welcome! We are a family of four, two adults and kids aged 2 and 4.

The flat is literally across the road from a lovely park, there's a private garden and a big communal garden too. We would have direct access to both gardens. So what it lacks in indoor space it really does make up for in outdoor space.

We would give the one bedroom to the kids, bunk beds for them and we could have some of their toys and all of their clothes stored in the bedroom too.

Then there's a big open plan kitchen / living room. We would sleep there on a sofa bed and would need some storage there for our clothes too.

We would need to be ruthless with toys / clothes / books and keep some items in storage - capsule wardrobes for all and in reality our kids wear the same three outfits in rotation anyway!

It is also well within our budget and means we are not eating into our savings which feels essential as we still try to buy.

Downsides - obviously another bedroom or indeed another living space would be nice and we won't have space for guests or do to much hosting but I suppose that hasn't really been a feature of our lives for the past year and a half so maybe we can live without that for longer. Storage is also really lacking and we'll be relying on ikea shelves really plus leaving out of season clothes in our in laws house.

Any thoughts or experiences would be welcome please and thanks.

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Hallyup6 · 05/07/2021 22:12

My only concern would be that you plan to put a 4 year old in a bunk bed. They're not suitable for under 6s and I also have a 4 year old and know how they sleep! I wouldn't want mine to be getting out of it in the dark either. Would toddler/shorty beds be an option instead?

Otherwise I think a one bed would be workable as a short term solution.

parietal · 05/07/2021 22:23

If the bedroom is big enough, I'd put all 4 of you sleeping in the same room. you could even arrange the bunk bed to partition the room. Place the bunks out from the wall and fix plywood to one side to make a wall. Then the kids have their own side of the room & you can have a light on when you go to bed without waking them.

evtheria · 05/07/2021 22:32

Just linking a family home tour (55sq m!) your possible-situation reminds me of, you may find it useful:

bit.ly/2N30suh

FAQs · 06/07/2021 08:48

@evtheria that’s really nice!

TryingtoBuy2021 · 06/07/2021 09:11

[quote evtheria]Just linking a family home tour (55sq m!) your possible-situation reminds me of, you may find it useful:

bit.ly/2N30suh[/quote]
Thank you! Lots of ideas. Wherever we buy will be somewhat compact too so good to thinking this way anyway.

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Benben34 · 31/01/2023 14:22

Hi

I'd like to know wether this worked out for you or not.

If not because of the legalities. This would really annoy me, and to me reflects modern Western arrogance and entitlement.

I've lived in other countries and know that millions of families are quite fine in small accommodation, share a room with their kids.

There is no one that literally NEEDS as much space as you are legally obliged to take on in the West.

With the climate crisis, the cost of living and the obvious need to propagate less land for building, why on earth are people legally obliged to pay more and take on more.

I have lived for years with my children in smaller space without a problem, but now when we come back to entitled democratic superior arrogant West, we must have a property of a certain mandated size, no matter our income etc.

I expect most don't see why this is irritating, but to me it very much is.

Perhaps you did this however and ran into no legal difficulties, in which case, fantastic!

StillTryingtoBuy · 31/01/2023 23:53

Hiya, we didn’t rent that flat in the end as the landlord went with someone else
and didn’t accept our offer. I’m sure wear and tear from a family of 4 was a concern for them. No-one flagged any legal issues to us. In the end we rented a flat with two bedrooms but a tiny living space. Not ideal but more than manageable!

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