we are based in the ne but have always had a desire to live closet to london we never managed it in our 20's) as professionals though i myself lived in oxfordshire for a while and have had otheer connections to london
we are bored of the nw nw though obviously we 100% acknowledge its a great part of the world with great cities etc the area we live in is posh but rural and children wld be v unlikely to stay here as adults and we just dont fancy any of the closer cities again just because we have both lived or worked in these cities over the years and have an inkling for a change
we have looked at various commuter belt towns and have decided its hertfordshire for us
we have 3 primary aged kids all well settled where we are
DH work is not nw based but he does WFH for 3 days per wk he could likely find more work in SE my job is not location dependant
we dont have v close family ties in nw though some family are here
i am torn between thinking just go for it and between thinking why are we even considering making the opposite move than everyone normally does (eg most seem to move north from se not the other way around)
we can afford to. buy upto £900k
are we mad to even consider it?