Hi all,
I have been reluctant for some time to seek some advise on the above because I have seen similar questions on forums dismissed and turned into a debate on morals. These type of responses can be really unhelpful and I would really appreciate answers/experiences that will help to assist. (I am not relying on forums alone).
So the background is as follows: I have lived in housing association for 20+ years. My tenancy is secure (assured) and i am more than grateful.The properties i have lived in have always been lovely but my journey hasn't been without it's problems, (sure i'm not alone) and has meant that i have had to move a couple of times. My current home is a lovely 2-bed house with a drive on a small close of houses. The close itself isn't the cleanest unfortunately, but the neighbors are all lovely. The area has fantastic transport links as it is and is going under regeneration with the arrival of the cross rail.
I have always been an anxious person and lacked self confidence in myself which has led me to live in a bubble of procrastination and being indecisive such as starting UNI late because I thought i wasn't clever enough to participate or pass exams etc. Oddly when i actually do take action in my life the results have been positive and even then i doubt myself and ask how i achieved that. But purchasing a home feels like a whole different ballgame and i think it's mostly the fear of giving up a secure tenancy to losing a home.
Anyway enough rambling. So, with the last 20+ years there have been small pockets of opportunity, in which I have managed to save some money. Around 2016 probably was the peak. I am now also in a better financial position than in my former low paid role of 8yrs. I say financially better but far from minted.
I now have what some would say a healthy deposit to purchase a property but not in London (no surprise there) where i currently reside. My money would take me comfortably to somewhere in the West-midlands (no family or friends) where my rent here would be my mortgage there but even the WM is going up. Other places i have considered are Kent and Essex but these areas are more expensive and rapidly increasing and it would mean that i would very likely have to consider a lodger to help if i were to live comfortably.
I am single, in my early 40's, have a young adult child who would not even entertain these area's and would probably move in with his grandparents, so while i consider these area's, lodger etc, i also consider feeling potentially isolated as having my family in close proximity means a lot. Also not sure this is the best time to buy or if there ever will be a "best time" factoring that i am not getting any younger, and waiting may leave me with know options with house prices soaring.
The idea of owning my own home outright one day is my drive, but as mentioned above there are a few things to consider as areas continue to out price people. I don't even care to buy in London but the outskirts are also looking pricey. If i do buy further out can I ever get back in?
So thoughts please, do I stay in HA (rent under £500) - save more, invest in something else, take a leap of faith, noise dive, plunge, tip-toe, find a husband who will move with me to the W.Midlands yadayadayada.
Comprise is the obvious here but just wanted some thoughts on this.
Soz for the essay.