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IHateHousehunting · 15/03/2021 06:36

I'm really torn between two houses in two very different locations and I don't know what to do.

Option A: Extended 1920s house in a naice area close to outstanding and good schools- currently in catchment for both an outstanding primary and an outstanding secondary (though both are due an Ofsted), plus on the doorstep of a good private school (DC wouldn't be attending it though, short of obtaining a scholarship). Good sized garden, big downstairs, but upstairs is significantly smaller. Would need to rejig to fit in a kitchen table, needs redecorating throughout but currently liveable. Two of the bedrooms are pretty big, but the other two are currently much smaller- about the size of our current boxroom. No en-suite to the master but downstairs shower-room off the kitchen (only one door between shower room and kitchen though, and proximity of the toilet to the food prep area does give me the ick somewhat). It's a city suburb, so close to city amenities but about 15 minutes walk from the nearest playground and park, though the garden is big enough to put our own play equipment in. Has a garage and lots of potential for rejigging the interior if we had the time and money. Underpriced for the area and house for quick sale. More affluent and more highly educated local population- on the doorstep of a hospital so lots of doctors, plus other high-flyers.

Option B: Extended 1970s build in a nice (but not naice) village, about six minutes away from the nearest large town and twenty minutes from the city. Big upstairs but downstairs is slightly smaller than the one we've got now, though very nicely laid out- kitchen/living/diner overlooks the garden, separate (though smallish) living room at the front, office/playroom. Garden is small, but very practical for children in terms of layout and backs onto a park with a playground that can be accessed from a grassy path three houses down. Nearby country walks, including to a castle ruin. Sort of village that attracts lots of walkers on the weekends. Schools good, though not outstanding, with only one near-ish secondary. Has an en-suite and dressing area to the master, bedrooms are all a good size. Family bathroom needs redoing, but apart from that wouldn't really need to change much. Hasn't got a garage. Lower crime (Option A isn't bad for crime but there's significantly more owing to how urban it is).

Option B has had an asking price offer made on it already having been on the market less than a week. Option A has been on the market since last year, and according to the vendor had a sale fall through due to problems at the buyer's end, there is an offer on the table they're considering but it's lower than they'd like. They want a new-build though and have to get their house sold again to secure it. It's about 40 grand more expensive than Option B.

I'm really torn and don't know which one to go for, they're both really nice. Really, if I want either I need to make a move today. Thoughts?

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BikeRunSki · 15/03/2021 07:43

A for the secondaries, it also sounds like there would be less driving them everywhere when they are transfers.

Solasum · 15/03/2021 07:44

Option A. You spend more time downstairs than up so makes more sense to have more living space.

If you have a garden you can afford to be a bit further from parks etc.

Paddingtonthebear · 15/03/2021 07:48

B sounds a nicer layout but A sounds better location and has more potential long term. I would live by a play park again having had a bad experience of that

Paddingtonthebear · 15/03/2021 07:50

*wouldn’t

pumpkinpie01 · 15/03/2021 07:50

Is the garden big enough for trampoline, swings, slide , football posts , paddling pool etc if so I really don't think they would miss a park and 15 minutes walk is not actually that far .

NoSquirrels · 15/03/2021 07:52

Schools good, though not outstanding, with only one near-ish secondary

If you’re moving for schools, and Option B is Schools good, though not outstanding, with only one near-ish secondary and Option A is close to outstanding and good schools- currently in catchment for both an outstanding primary and an outstanding secondary then A.

Proximity to a park is less crucial once they’re at school all day and if you have a good sized garden it’s fine. Upstairs space is easier to live with than lack of downstairs space and less costly to create more if you can do a loft conversion.

The only thing about Option A vs B for primary age children might be your idea of whether they get to play out or not? In Option A that sounds unlikely (so it’s all invited play dates at home) in Option B they’ll probably naturally play out more independently due to proximity to the playground. If you want to stay towards secondary though Option A will trounce that with the walking/independence for teens.

Depends on whether this is a 5-7 year house or a 15 year + house?

Onjnmoeiejducwoapy · 15/03/2021 08:28

A by miles

Didicat · 15/03/2021 08:31

How long are you likely to live there? What are your other plans apart from owning house - car, holidays etc etc.

What would the additional mortgage mean to lifestyle?

DavidsSchitt · 15/03/2021 08:42

"The main reason we're moving is schools"

Well you've answered your own question then. It's A.

Why would a 15 minute walk to the park be affected by lockdown? That's pretty standard isn't it?

IHateHousehunting · 15/03/2021 08:56

@Paddingtonthebear

B sounds a nicer layout but A sounds better location and has more potential long term. I would live by a play park again having had a bad experience of that
What was your bad experience?
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IHateHousehunting · 15/03/2021 08:59

@DavidsSchitt

"The main reason we're moving is schools"

Well you've answered your own question then. It's A.

Why would a 15 minute walk to the park be affected by lockdown? That's pretty standard isn't it?

Parks are OK, but they're not really my thing- just grass mainly. I like to be able to get to woodland areas and was luckily able to in lockdown because there's one in walking distance from where we are now. From Option A we'd have to drive to that sort of place and in lockdown that wouldn't have been possible.
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IHateHousehunting · 15/03/2021 09:05

@Didicat

How long are you likely to live there? What are your other plans apart from owning house - car, holidays etc etc.

What would the additional mortgage mean to lifestyle?

There's about £100 difference in mortgage, not make or break in terms of day to day living, but we would need an extra 15 grand to go towards the deposit of Option A. Although we can do it, it'd be nice not to have to.
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DavidsSchitt · 15/03/2021 10:20

"From Option A we'd have to drive to that sort of place and in lockdown that wouldn't have been possible."

Driving hasn't been banned. It is fine to travel for exercise.

The reason I asked is because I'm getting the impression you want house B and are trying to persuade your DH despite A being the obvious fit for you. The "lockdown head" is a pretty poor argument.

If schools are the main priority then go for A.

Bluesheep8 · 15/03/2021 10:48

Extended 1970s build in a nice (but not naice) village

What makes one village nice and the other naice? Genuine question.

WaterBottle123 · 15/03/2021 11:21

A. Always pick for schools.

Svrider · 15/03/2021 11:59

Bluesheep8
I would say the difference between nice and naice is the availability of naice ham 😀

WineInTheWillows · 15/03/2021 12:03

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WineInTheWillows · 15/03/2021 12:05

@Svrider

Bluesheep8 I would say the difference between nice and naice is the availability of naice ham 😀
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perenniallymessy · 15/03/2021 12:14

A sounds better to me. You've then got the secondary school close- if your DC can walk there they are likely to have local mates and you won't be driving them around all the time.

The house sounds fine and over time you can make changes to it- look around at local houses and if there are lots of extended houses nearby then you should be good to extend. I would agree about moving the downstairs bathroom- next to the kitchen is icky.

Also, in terms of investment- if it's near to good schools and the hospital then it should always be sought after, so its value should appreciate nicely. We bought close to a secondary school that was new but now has a great reputation and houses in our street have been selling for eye watering amounts. Every time a new one goes on the market the existing owners agree we could never move here now!

CassandraCross · 15/03/2021 12:17

lots of potential for rejigging the interior if we had the time and money

Do you? And are you prepared to live in a building site with all the disruption whilst you are doing so as it seems to me you are not talking about minor changes.

Bluesheep8 · 15/03/2021 12:30

@Svrider

Bluesheep8
I would say the difference between nice and naice is the availability of naice ham

Brilliant Grin

CloudyGladys · 15/03/2021 12:33

@WaterBottle123

A. Always pick for schools.
But don't pick schools based only on their Ofsted report grading, particularly if that report is not recent or there has been a change of headteacher since the inspection.

It sounds like you prefer the location of B but are getting hung up on the good or outstanding labels for the schools. You need to dig a bit deeper if this is your deal-breaker. What the schools were given to improve on, have they done that, and are they even things that are significant or relevant to your children?

Granted you can't visit at present, but you can get a good feel for a school by being in the proximity at the beginning or end of the day and seeing how the children, parents and staff interact.

With regard to the secondary schools, rather than distance, look at what the journey to and from school is like. Is "just over two miles" the estate agents' as-the-crow-flies measurement or the actual council-defined route? That route might be over three miles, so there would be a bus, or via a path that's a shorter distance or safe to cycle on.

Chewbecca · 15/03/2021 12:39

A for sure based on the location and schools, plus it has potential to further improve when you have more ££ in a few years.

Paddingtonthebear · 15/03/2021 14:43

Experience of living near play park/area = anti social behaviour every night from local teens

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