Hi everyone. Sorry I disappeared... kids, work, pregnancy, extension and a husband that works away. All your replies have been soooo helpful. Thank you so much.
@soggycornflakes we haven't committed but after getting a whole load of samples I think we are probably going to go for Quickstep Impressive laminate with the silent walk underlay.
Its certainly not the popular choice, even the builder says he doesn't install laminate anymore only click vinyl. I'm a little confused by it. LVT is beautiful and the floors that have been shared on here are gorgeous, and the different lay patterns you can have etc are amazing and make it unique. Some of it is also bomb proof.
But... there seems to be such snobbery round laminate because its fake, yet LVT is still an imitation product but doesn't seem to have the same stigma.
If you are considering LVT just make sure you have a quote for the fit in advance. The need for a perfect subfloor can make an already quite expensive product very expensive. As an estimate (which I'm sure varies widely), we were told about £22 sqm for a new subfloor + £15 sqm to install the product (though that would vary dependent on laying pattern). When Amtico itself varies between £30-75 sqm it can get seriously expensive (perhaps thats why the snobbery isn't there).
I also mentioned some friends who were having a mass of LVT installed... i obviously haven't seen it in person yet but it does look fab in pictures. However, there's was installed in a new extension with a brand new concrete screed that was supposed to be poured with LVT in mind. It still took the fitters (Amtico registered and do this every single day) 4 days to prepare the subfloor before they could start installation.
All that being said if we were having parquet/herringbone i probably would consider the LVT for its durability.
However, on the large planks I prefer the textures of the Quickstep and find them more realistic... but its obviously all personal taste. Unfortunately the one I prefer in terms of colour I have ruled out having had a large sample because it has a design with a very significant 'groove'. Which i don't dislike but is going to make the repeat of the pattern VERY obvious.
Anyway, this is turning into a monster but I just wanted to share my pictures of my samples that i tested. Now caveat is that this was fairly extreme testing (so more intense than the average floor would suffer).
The very first (accidental) test we did was the kids started playing with the samples and using them for stepping stones. The wood samples were already marked after that.
We left tomato ketchup, vinegar and water on the samples overnight. This didn't really bother them, except one (the oiled engineered wood) which darkened slightly under the water, but even that dried up after a bit longer. I then popped a chuckie (we have a gravel drive and doors that come via slabs straight onto the floor) on top and danced around in my slippers... none of them liked that at all, but the laminate definitely held up much better.
Then i tried various things to scratch the samples. None of them touched the laminate but it didnt take much to scratch the wood.
Finally, we dropped a butter knife from standing height... that leaves a mark in the laminate and the wood.
The woods were Kahrs (though not one of their top range) and the laminate was Quickstep Impressive. I also tested a more expensive, absolutely beautiful engineered wood from a local company that is Osmo oiled, but I'll have to dig that out to get a picture.
Ultimately I think I've concluded that although the wood will look much better, I am not so sure it will still look better in a couple of years. So i will be eternally jealous of you all who have it and can only assume that you are better at looking after your house than I am!