I feel like we are going round and round in circles so need your help!
Our mortgage is up for renewal. We've tossed and turned as husband is self employed and so restrictions around Covid-19 are restrictive for remortgages, but not as much for new mortgages, so we started looking at houses. Put ours on the market but barely had a sniff, bar two viewings. Lockdown and Christmas combined to a bit of a nightmare and we ended up pulling it off the market (perhaps rashly) and perusing the remortgage deal which got worse and worse as time went on. (We have an excellent broker, it really is just the current situation affecting it). We also couldn't find anything that we wanted to move to.
We then had a viewer come back to us while the house was off the market and beg to view again as he was really keen to offer. This meant we went and viewed a property and fell in love. It ticks many of our boxes. Viewer turned out to be a waste of time and offered elsewhere but now we have fallen for this other house and are in this bloody flux of working out what to do.
On one hand, it's cheaper and quicker to remortgage. We love where we live, happy with primary school etc, have lovely friends. We also didn't get a big bite on the house selling before although this was put down to lockdown and Christmas slowing the market down. We've missed the stamp duty holiday too.
On the other, we are outgrowing the space here (3 bed, family of 5). The children obviously haven't been in school a lot over the past year. I can't shake the feeling that now is the time to move financially with a crash on the horizon and we could be stuck here if we remortgage now and have REALLY outgrown the house. The house has gained a fair amount of equity since we moved here and I suspect we might be at the peak (or even just past the peak already) of that. We really love the house we have found and I can't stop thinking about how great it would be for our family - and finally, secondary school is a big thing as the one we are in catchment for isn't great (requires improvement) but where the new house is there are two Good and one Outstanding to choose from.
What would you do? I'm struggling to separate the sensible from the emotional here so advice is very welcome.