I would say it looks OK, but would add :
Flooring - unless you're going for lino, £1k is too low, presumably you'll need to re-floor the space you're adding to so that its all uniform?
Building works - so the plumbing / electrics etc we were quoted for (at approx £2k/sqm) were things like white plastic switches & sockets / standard radiators / white pvc windows / standard doors & door furniture. If you want to upgrade any of those (eg we installed lovely column radiators, 1930s oak panelled doors, brushed chrome switches etc) then that will be on top. Maybe an extra £2-3k depending on the numbers involved?
Decoration (unless you're doing it all yourself?)
Fitting - you've included costs for lighting / flooring / kitchen etc - who is fitting all of those, or are your costs inclusive of fitting? If they are, then I think they're on the low wide.
I also think £1.5k for 2m patio doors is cheap.
You've also not budgeted for the furniture / fittings. Its very easy to get carried away once you have a lovely new space and if you haven't allowed for a new table & chairs / sofa etc or whatever you're going to have, it can be an issue.
Finally, are you living in the house whilst its done? Do you need to store furniture (we rented a little storage unit)? Don't forget to include those sorts of costs / an increase on your normal budget for food etc if you end up with more takeaways / easy food if you have to cope without a kitchen for a few weeks.