[quote Nomoneyohno]**@HasaDigaEebowai* we would happily go into the office as they are allowed to have visits by appointment. @PomPomSugar* would you have a large sum of money transferred through your accounts unnecessarily that you had nothing to do with? What if that affected you in the future somehow? Some people don’t like getting involved in transactions and being responsible for large amounts of money. My family member won’t even trust buying anything online!! There’s nothing untoward it’s my money that I have paid off over the years, I can prove the money has solely come from my house, I’m just frustrated as when I have been looking this up there are things that can be done to satisfy my solicitors to transfer it to my account rather than them just saying no![/quote]
Op, there does seem to be some confusion coming from you.
Firstly legally it’s not “your” money, it’s yours and the other joint owners, your relative.
Secondly they need to have something to do with the money as they have a tax liability on their share of the profit.
The money didn’t come solely from “your house” it came from yours and yours relatives house. There was two of you owned the property. It was never solely yours.
The solicitor won’t be being underhand, the money is in an escrow account and protected. You will even get the interest. If the solicitors robbed it, you’d still get yout money, it’s protected.
But if the solicitors are concerned something illegal may be occuring. They will hold off until they are sure. It seems yours are saying rhey won’t proceed unless the other owner takes their share of the money.
If you’re not both doing something dodgey, then let them take the money. But it is their money and they can’t just give it to you. There is a tax issue there on gifts.
As said, hopefully you took advice on all this before the person went on the mortgage, and you’ve just not articulated it well.