This is a frequent question.
Buyers offered on the house, for the house and fitted fixtures and not because they wanted to buy a load of second hand appliances. However, sellers often think they should be able to sell their second hand appliances at a price similar to new or what they would get in the open second hand market.
It’s always best to make clear when offering what needs to be included in the price and to list everything. If it’s fitted, it should be included. If you want it included, name it at offer stage...eg curtains.
If sellers want to charge extra for items (and sometimes they feel they’ve spent a lot on them and want to recoup something.....when in the realm of hundreds of thousands for property, personally I think even expensive curtains should be included) then it really should be a token amount, and not an attempt to extort what they would get ina Jedi g war on eBay. If they want to get the max price possible for their second hand items, they should sell them on the second hand open market.
And people should feel free to say no they don’t want things without fear that the sale might fall through or people be offended. People forget that second hand items are not to everyone’s taste and when second hand lose a lot of value even if expensive first time round. Curtains that cost thousands when new are worth a fraction second hand.
When negotiating, make clear that if the seller chooses to remove anything, it must all be made good - so if a range of wrenched out causing a hole in the floor, it will need to be repaired. If light fittings are removed or fitted wardrobes taken out, the walls must be repaired. Ensure you get a list of what they will remove and commitment to repair and say that if these things are mentioned you will need to do another viewing before exchange to check the repairs are done.
In most cases, if communication is good and sellers realise they will have to make good, they won’t remove items that cause damage. They might choose to remove curtains etc....that’s up to them and unless specified as included in the sale, is fine.
Just be very clear upfront about it all.
And sellers, be realistic that a house sale isn’t the place to flog lots of second hand appliances for top whack.