We are hoping to do a rear single story extension (side reveal), we're the mid terrace house with neighbours on either side. Am beginning to get quite bogged down in possible party wall worried.
On one side, we actually want to use a formal party wall (the shared building boundary is on our land ie is a legal party wall) so we thought we would go through the proper process of appointing a surveyor, although serve the actual notice ourselves to try to minimise costs.
On the other neighbouring side, we were hoping to just give them notice and hopefully avoid appointing a surveyor, although they are a bit awkward.
I am beginning to worry a lot about the party wall situation though - eg if our builder somehow fucked up and their house was structurally damaged, who would have to pay - us or the builder's insurance?
Also, so many people build extensions - how many actually go down the party wall route of serving notice etc? A friend is currently building an extension within 3m of her neighbours and has just ploughed ahead without getting any signatures. I don't now if I am overthinking the party wall aspect and becoming overwhlmed by it before even getting the drawings etc done.
Any thoughts or advice welcomed.