Got side-tracked by the trolling in this thread, but agree with this 100% and am baffled why people like quant find it so hard to process:
However, humans aren't robots guided by what's "optimal". Happiness is the most important factor and money only plays a small part in that; for me it takes a small amount to be comfortable (1k a month really), anything over that I don't spend because there's nothing I want to spend it on. Life isn't just about maximising investment. For example, with my qualifications I could work in a bank, make 200k a year and retire early. However in reality I'd probably commit suicide out of misery, so I choose to do a 35k job where I don't have to commute to London and can leave the office at 5pm to go to hobby classes in the evening. I might even move to a creative sector (shock horror) where I earn absolute peanuts, because I enjoy the work so much! Definitely not "optimal" behaviour @BeijingBikini
I have fallen into a high salary role, essentially because I wear 4-5 different hats and it's cheaper than hiring 5 separate people. It wasn't really planned, the opportunities fell into my lap and I happen to know a wealthy business owner, who runs several businesses and will only work with those he trusts.
It's stressful, it's exhilarating, it takes over my entire life. I managed around 5 days off in the whole of last year, going away for my birthday, but even then I was frequently checking emails. Aside from those 5 days, I worked 7 days a week, often with laptop in bed post 11pm.
My plan was that I'd stick it out for the immediate future, until burnout (which will come) and then find myself the role that is good for the soul! Charity sector, teaching etc. I long for those days.
I bought property this year. I would not have been able to do so on a significantly lower salary. Somebody rightly pointed out in this thread that affordability criteria is incredibly strict. This needs to be taken into consideration for those who will wait it out for the next 12-18 months, as I it will get stricter.