The T handle (I couldn't see it in your photo?) will be the stop cock of the meter. When you screw it down the water will go off and (no doubt) the meter will stop going round.
It's very strange not to have a stopcock in the house, either next to where the front gate used to be when the house was built, or underneath where the sink used to be when the house was built. Ask neighbours with identical houses if they have one.
also, ask around locally for personal recommendations of a local plumber (doesn't need to be a boilerman). A wrinkly old one with a cloth cap will do fine. I think you need to ask if he can find any sign of a leak (if he is old and local he will have seen hundreds, if not thousands, and will be familiar with houses just like yours) and also, to fit an indoor stopcock for you.
Invite him to test for a leak with a glass of water on the kitchen tap. Even if he can't find where it is, he will know if there is one.
Is your kitchen floor concrete? Or wood with a space underneath?
Lift some floorboards (e.g. under the stairs) and look under some kitchen units.. Sniff. Can you smell damp? Are there any signs such as mildew on walls near the floor?
You mentioned a swimming pool. It might be on the pipe to that. Does it have a stopcock?
The relevance of the stopcocks is that you turn them off, and see if the water flow stops. If yes, the leak is beyond that stopcock; if no, it is upstream.
If you have any water tanks in the loft, look and see if any are constantly filling. Do the same with WC cisterns. They will (should) have service valves. Turn them off and see if it makes a difference.
A young person with sharp ears will be able to tell if the (almost imperceptible) hiss of a leak stops, even if the don't notice it as a continuous background boise. If you don't have access to such a person, buy an Engineer's Stethoscope for a few pounds on ebay, and press the end against some pipes.