Interested in people's views and experiences.
We have had an offer accepted on a house. It looked like it was in reasonable condition- a few bits and pieces that needed doing so we successfully offered at 3% below purchase price.
The survey was... not good. Various issues- chimneys, penetrating damp, roof issues, brickwork, cracks, etc etc. Surveyor estimates at least 75k (around 10% of the purchase price) worth of work and potentially more depending on further investigations.
We want the estate agents to ask the owners whether they are in principle open to a substantial reduction in price - of up to 50k - if the quotes from builders support the surveyor's estimate. If not, it feels like a waste of time to get investigations and quotes done. The estate agents are making us feel like this is unreasonable and that the surveyor is scaremongering and inflating the figures. They are also suggesting that all Victorian houses are likely to need lots of work.
What's the usual way of doing things?
And are the surveyor's estimates likely to be roughly right?
Are all victorian houses this in need of repair?
We really like the house but with that much work to do, it simply isn't worth what we would be paying in total for it and we were never interested in fixer uppers as we have 2 small children and busy professional jobs.
Am inclined to withdraw the offer and look again. What would you do?