People in this country are funny about agreeing a price for a house sale/purchase.....all this stuff about being offended or pissed off abiut offers. It is business and quite simply a price has to be agreed via negotiation. People have to set an asking price, which is quite simply a figure - some deliberately set it high, others low and some at a level they hope to achieve and others know they will never get that....there are all kinds of reasoning behind the asking prices which are set and only the seller usually knows those and cannot expect any potential buyers to magically know if they expect to accept lower or go to a judging war. So there is no point being offended by offers which aren't at the asking price, nor being afraid to make an offer of whatever level you make.
People strike me as rather timid and wimpy about making offers. It is a business deal again and you can offer what you like and the estate agent needs to put it forward. It might not be accepted but if you dont ask you don't know. The only time in my mind to not go with a low offer you think might have a chance, is if you think you will lose the property to someone else and you are prepared to pay more.
Being offended or worrying about offending others by an offer is all to do with people being emotionally attached to their houses (especially when they've done work to them) and also about sellers having a sense of entitlement about the price they perceive to be right for their house. It's also due to having a failure of understanding that houses are only ever worth what people are prepared to pay for them and that this varies according to time and all kinds of factors.
When you decide to move you have to become a but more thick-skimmed, less prissy, less easily offended, less emotional about your own home, less entitled about price and more willing to respond to the market. If you aren't able to do that, although you might sell quickly, you equally might well be in for a lomg old wait. Those who are rigid about asking price especially in the face of advice from state agents, can find they remain on the market for months or years. The very stubborn will always believe they proved their property right and all the buyers are wrong abut it. That's fine if you don't need to sell and can just wait years for the market to rise if need be.
Remember too, we negotiate through estate agents, so we don't have to deal directly with vendors or buyers. Estate agents are there to get both as high a price as possible (to maximise commission) but also to get a sale (to get any commission). They sometimes have more information about prices a seller would accept or the max a buyer might go to, but not always. Buyers and sellers shouldn't be scared of estate agents and buyers should feel free to make the offer they want to. Estate agents might laugh a little or suck their teeth and shake their heads at low offers, hoping you will up your offer, but if that's the offer you want to make, just go ahead. And remember information is the key to success. Really knowing your local market and what properties of the type you want are actually selling for (not asking prices) and how quickly is vital. You can get yourself in a strong position with that knowledge. You can gain some knowledge about the seller from an estate agent, but you never totally know their individual position or motivations which drive their asking price or the price they will actually accept. Two owners of 2 identical houses next door to each other might accept wildly different prices in the end and often there's not a lot you can do about it. That's why you just have to make the offer you want to - not be scared of offending or being turned down. Offer and see what happens. It might be a 'yes' or it might be a 'go a bit higher and we will say yes' or it might be a 'no' and you walk away. A 'no' is not a disaster and if the person who said 'no' dwells on your offer being low and is offended by it and thinks about if for more than a very short while, well more fool them, and ultimately what do you really care anyway...you may have never met them and if they said 'no' probably won't see them again and if you do it will be becaue they are more amenable to your offer. It's simply a business transaction and people need to be a little but more business like about it.