I'm house 2 in a property chain which has been in legals since the spring. 2 properties above me, and one below.
The problem is my buyer. I won't go into the detail, but he has messed around and not communicated. The latest is everyone is supposed to be ready to exchange but he isnt responding on the proposed completion date.
I will be giving him an ultimatum, as I've had quite enough of this. However, he has been so flaky and difficult that I'm very nervous about exchanging contracts with him if he does comply. If he completes late the entire chain will go through horrendous stress if there are delays, and if he doesn't complete at all and forfeits his deposit I'll lose tens of thousands of pounds as I'll have to pass his deposit up the chain, lose the balance of mine and pay my seller compensation. I'm in the odd position of being desperate for him to exchange, but shit scared of doing so!
I've been up since 4 with this on my mind and have come up with the plan to exchange and complete with my buyer first, and only then exchange with my seller with a short completion date (i.e. long enough to arrange removals). We would then wang all of our stuff into storage for the interim and stay with relatives/in Airbnb until the purchase goes through.
Obviously our buyer has to accept this, but I'm hopeful they'll understand that I'm trying to reduce the risk and uncertainty for everyone else in the chain.
Will this work? Am I missing an obvious problem or an obvious solution? I need to look into short term storage and accommodation costs but in my head I'd be willing to allow up to £2k or so for this, which feels like enough.
I have realised that if I do this I risk my seller pulling out and leaving us homeless. In that case we'd go into rented accommodation for six months and be able to go back to the market to find a new property chain free, so it would be a hassle, but not a disaster.
Thoughts/criticisms? I'm expecting to be told that chains go through every day without problems and I'm being too nervous about doing it simultaneously, but I've worked in conveyancing myself and have seen them go wrong very occasionally.
Ps if anyone reading this thinks they are in my chain feel free to DM me!