Hi all,
I was cheered last night with the fellow-sufferers I found on mumsnet by searching "I hate my builder". But in practical terms....need to take action and seeking advice.
Our builder is a proven liar (long story but he has admitted it in writing, I'm not misinterpreting). My take is he is an incompetent project manager who lies when he can't see another way out of his mess. He has eroded his profit margin through incompetence and he's trying to claw it back. He must know he is on dodgy ground legally on some things.
He has just asked (on flimsy excuses) for an extra 8K for our two projects which total 220K. He has already been given an extra 10K to fix his own mistakes. We'll have to pay £800 to get the building control certificate he has lied about made a mistake about.
He also says he will be late (and face a penalty) if we don't let a "not so good" decorator help the proven good one - if we refuse the "helper" then he isn't penalised for lateness - what would you do?
I worry if we pay he will just ask for more money yet again. If he cracked on there is about 2 months' more work in all. He is 5 months late on one project (due to be "16 weeks") and expected to be 6 weeks late on the other ("4-5 months").
Do I pay what he asks? Do I offer to pay half but say absolutely no more invented extras and arguments? How do I make that stick? (have been trying without luck to engage a building surveyor - only one has even replied).
I know I'm being a wimp but this is dominating my life and DH's and making us both ill.