I'm buying a lovely 3 bed terrace for myself and my DDs (10&7). It needs work but is liveable for now. I'll need to strip the woodchip and liner paper that's everywhere. New flooring. Lick of paint. Rip out old built-in wardrobes. New porch in the front. Reinvigorate the garden etc. Here's the thing. The bathroom needs doing. I'd like to extend the kitchen into the side return... There's already a UPVC conservatory there but would like to knock the wall through and have a big living space. Kitchen is ok but ideally I'd have a new one that fits the extended space. Wondering whether to go all out on that and get the living space the way I want it, and live with the rest until I earn more money. I'm in London though so think £20k might be a drop in the ocean for a kitchen and extension...
What would you prioritise? How can I possibly achieve a new extension (conservatory, lean to or orangery... Whatever) for £20k? Am prepared to do as much of it myself as I can and with help of friends/family.