Lovely area. Lots for the kids (and adults) . There is a pottery painting studio, soft play, parks, playgrounds, Cubs, brownies, Fencing, Street dance, ballet, kumon, tots football, playgroups etc etc. Easy to get about when they are older and teenagers as loads of trains and bus routes. There are nice local shops but for a good range it is easy to pop into Bromley or drive to Bluewater. A couple of ladies clothes shops give a nice small selection and are friendly and helpful. Farm shop at Hewitts in Orpington for those trying to avoid plastic and buy local etc.
As it is on the edge of the countryside you have so much to head out to into Kent as you do upto Town in central London and none of it takes a long time as you are only five mins from J4 of the M25.
This Friday evening just gone had a lovely feeling, lots out enjoying the sunny weather in the Daylight, One Inn the Wood, Cow and Bean (turns into a little drinking hole in the evening) - lots of lovely restaurants, Mexican, Indian, Mediterranean, Turkish, Chinese, Thai. A new wine bar is due to open in August called Vault and Vine I’m what used to be the Lloyds bank.
Lovely village feel with May Fayre, Petts Woodstock and Christmas lights.
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