If we were to apply for a mortgage today, they would be horrified by my discretionary spending.
I have a Costa four to five days a week, I generally have a millionaires shortbread as well.
We have breakfast out most Saturdays, well DH does, I have a fried egg. ( eating issues following head and neck cancer.
We buy wine by the case.
We pay someone to do the garden (DH is currently doing thirteen hour days)
Amazon make a lot of money out of us.
I could go on, but I won't...
My point being we are mortgage free and those spends are what we can after 30 years hard slog, afford to "waste" but if I were assessing me if I had applied for a mortgage, I would be thinking really, like really, get a grip.
They need to know where your money is going.
They have a product, you want the product, they have criteria.
They are in the driving seat.
Quite easy really.