hello,
we have been looking to buy a house for ages and last weekend viewed a beautiful house. it was pricey but we are so fed up with house hunting that we immediately put an offer on the asking price. the EA called and said even though we offered the asking price, there were other viewers on the same day and he has to give them opportunity to have a say. at the end of the day, he called to say there is another buyer offering slightly higher than the asking price, they are also first time buyers like us, so he asked if we’re going to increase. we made a 5k increase, and the next day he called again, apparently the other party increased again. I had a disgusting feeling and felt being lied to, so did not make another bid. I said we can’t go any higher.
Then he said as they are giving more, vendors will accept their offer 99%.(why not 100%?) Same day he called again, saying he asked the other buyers for proof of deposit and waiting on that. he said he’s going to let me know first if they can’t prove their finances.
Now, I have a feeling that he will call me tomorrow and will say they couldn’t prove their finances so we still have a chance. The question is, if that happens, can I decrease my offer, as I had increased the bid only because of that other bidders? It doesn’t make sense to me to pay more than the asking price where there are no more rivals, but would it be disrespectful to the vendors? what would you do?