We're first time buyers and had our offer accepted on a flat early January. Instructed solicitors not long after that and we're still waiting.
Neither of us are in a chain but I've just called our solicitors for an update and they've said they have 16 outstanding queries from the sellers solicitors that they're waiting on.
Not to mention our own solicitors don't respond to emails and got shirty on me when I called to ask what was happening.
I know it can take a little while but we don't have any idea when we may complete or any idea of a moving date. We've told our landlord we're moving and would like to give him an approximate date, plus we're so squished in I just need more space!
That was a therapeutic rant 
Should we just leave it to the solicitors or should we be doing more?