Caution: long post!
I will try and keep this as short as I possibly can.
6 months ago me and DP moved in with DP’s parents to save and get on the property ladder
We are a young(ish) couple late 20s.
Now have £10k+ savings plus £7k which will be gifted from DM
DP has bad credit (1 CCJ and multiple defaults)
I am on £44,000 and DP is on £35,000
6 months into living at theirs I am now 6 weeks pregnant and if all goes well baby will be here in December/Mat leave will start in November.
Do we:
Rent
Cheaper than a mortgage (£1,200 - £1,300 a month not inc bills)
Keep the savings we have and build on them for the next few years until we have even more (albeit of course won’t be able to save at the rate I just have!) in that time I will have been on mat leave with a baby and DH is planning to climb a ladder in his career so is gunning for more payrises. I will either return to work full time (I work from home) or maybe reduce hours if I can.
Buy
Help to Buy - 40% equity loan (we’ll be buying in a London borough)
Mortgage plus equity rent and service charge £1,600+ a month (not inc bills)
Wipe all my savings but own a 2-bed flat at least
Struggle immensely financially and emotionally when I go on SMP and we have no savings because we spent it all on buying a flat
Stay there for 4 years approx and gain enough equity for a deposit on a bigger house when it comes to moving again (probably outside of London - more for our money)
Have our foot on the ladder rather than throwing thousands of pounds away renting
As you can see each has pros and cons and we are completely torn between what’s best for us in the LONG RUN.
Please no snipey comments about my pregnancy - after suffering immensely over the last 18 months with 2 miscarriages this is the best thing that’s happened to us and I wouldn’t change it for the world even if it meant living in a shed. I’m actually very lucky with the choices that I DO have, compared to some people who are less fortunate.
Sorry for the long post. Advice greatly appreciated.