I don't know if anyone i still reading ghtis but I wish I'd seen this a couple of months ago...
Edgbaston is NOT a red light district. LOL - that's like saying "Is Chelsea a red light district"? You couldn't be more wrong.
There is no red light district in Birmingham although working girls work here and there and they shift around via hassle from police and neighbourhood groups like any other city in the developed world.
There will always be working girls...
I'll let you into a secret as a Londoner who moved to Brum - Bearwood Bearwood Bearwood !!!
It's got parks (and woods - proper woods), a community vibe you can get properly and actually involved with (which Edgbaston and Harborne really don't have) and it's a down to earth "real" place to live where your money will go a LOT further in terms of the house you can buy than Edgbaston or Harborne. Check it out... You've got kids - you are going to be spending a lot of time IN YOUR HOUSE ! So get some bang for your buck.
I moved from London to Brum and chose Bearwood after renting around Birmingham for a year and researching it all.
I'm VERY glad I chose Bearwood.
I look out my back door - all I can see are trees. Step out of my front door and five minutes later I'm in the centre of town. It's a five quid cab ride to the "West End" of Birmingham - and now they're bringing the tram to guess where - BEARWOOD ! (also has best Chinese take away on the planet and Global wines, two bottles of properly decent French Cab Sav for seven quid) It's like finding that secret and excellent quarter of Paris that's a bit working class but full of groovy people and somehow the massive houses are cheap and the local shops turn out to be amazing - and really, do you want to live in Notting Hill - or do you actually realise that the not so famous place right next to Notting Hill is actually a much better place to live where you can afford a much bigger house, everyone is a bit more friendly and you get a properly bloody good garden. That's Bearwood.
BTW - Blue Coat is a great school for girls but DON'T send your boys there - it will crush them. I made the mistake of sending all three of mine to Blue Coat, Boy, Girl, Boy in that order and I speak from experience when I tell you send your girls to Blue Coat and your boys to St Georges.
If you want the inside track on anything about moving to or living in Birmingham just PM me. Honestly it's a great place to live - centre of the country and you can bash out trips to anywhere really easily - suddennly it feels like everywhere is really close, the coast, London, Hereford, Wales... We've got opera, the Royal ballet, sooooo many galleries and collections.
For me, it's London minus the annoyance.
And if I need the annoyance (which I sometimes do) it's exactly one hour on the train.