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Cant decide if i should move or not

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Montannah · 16/02/2019 21:14

I have lived in my housing association house for 5 years for the past year i have had an urge to want to move probably due to the fact my ex partner had an affair with the neighbour! Although I am over that now and it does not bother me really anymore i still have an urge to move. I love my house a lot and the area, i am currently in the process of a mutual exchange to another property 15 minutes away. It is not as nice as my house and it is alot smaller although i am gaining a much larger garden but my current partners family live in that same area (he does not live with me at the moment) and i have a few friends in the same kind of area which is why i chose the house. At the time of viewing the house i was 100% that i wanted to move there. Now the time for the move is getting closer i am having second thoughts i think about it every day whether i am making the right decision or not. My dd is in year 5 at school so i am still planning on sending her to the same school so she wont have to leave her friends i just dont know why i am having these second thoughts now. I dont want to move and regret it then again i dont want to not move and wish i had!

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spinabifidamom · 16/02/2019 21:33

I’m in the same boat. We are moving in April this year. I’m going to miss my mom friends I’ve made. Do you want to relocate to another area or not?
How old is DD? Hopefully we’ll make a offer on a property soon. I have also been researching properties in the area and asking a lot of questions. We’ve had all the surveys done now. In the middle of the process I tied the knot.
I have a few properties to check out still.

Montannah · 16/02/2019 21:43

I feel like maybe it is time to move on and try something new. When I think about it the only thing that keeps me here is DD’s school and the house itself. She will be 11 in october so will start senior school next year so it is not really an issue with schools. I just feel attached to my house I wish I could pick it up and take it with me!
Are you moving far away from where you are?

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Jackyjill6 · 16/02/2019 23:12

I was already to move a few years ago, but when it came down to it I didn't want to leave my home.
Can you write down the positives and negatives of moving to the new place?
It helped me realise that although I wanted a change, the house I was in suited me better than the one I was looking at.

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