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Fence confusion.

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LIVIA999 · 06/02/2019 18:38

I'm not sure if I'm posting in the right bit.. anyhow.
We have recently moved into our house and want to get working on the garden. Our fence is fine but the neighbours is falling down.
I've got a quote just to put a fence on our side so the fallen down fence is hidden. The neighbours are happy with that. They've said that they'll probably just take theirs down at some point.
My DH has just said though that if it's on our side it means we lose some of the garden but also that in time it could mean the neighbours could move the boundary. I suppose it only matters if our neighbours move.
Does anyone have an experience of this.
Is it a bad idea to put a fence on our side?

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johnd2 · 06/02/2019 19:04

If you're fine with losing a bit of garden then go for it, otherwise you can offer to have a new fence fitted for the neighbour and gift it to them.

2019Dancerz · 06/02/2019 19:32

You currently have two fences right next to eachother, one yours and one theirs?

wowfudge · 06/02/2019 20:26

I think the OP means they own the fence on one side, which is fine, and the neighbours' fence on the other side is the one they propose putting a new fence in front of.

Tbh if you want to sort out the issue and your DH doesn't want next door to gain part of your garden by removing their fence then yes, replace their fence for them.

Katxie · 06/02/2019 20:59

Why not just pay to replace the fence that's there - same result but the boundary is then correct?

brick15 · 06/02/2019 21:01

Check your responsibilities if you decide to replace your neighbours fence, you may be liable for all future maintenance etc

LIVIA999 · 06/02/2019 21:04

I could offer to replace it I suppose but I am nervous of offending them.
I hadn't even considered that.
I don't mind losing garden but my DH is. I think he's worried further down the line it might cause problems.
Maybe it's just easier to put up with rubbish fence.

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LIVIA999 · 06/02/2019 21:07

Oh actually I just remembered it was going to cost even more if we replaced their fence as we had to pay to have it taken down and disposed of.
When I spoke to them about fence they seemed relieved we would do it so I would feel bad asking for money.
I'm overthinking now....

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LIZS · 06/02/2019 21:09

Maybe they would fund the difference to take down theirs.

Movinghouseatlast · 07/02/2019 12:45

Yes, this will cause huge problems down the line potentially.

What would happen if your neighbour wanted to build an extension up to the boundary? They say the boundary is where the fence now is. You say the boundary is where it was.

What happens if you want to use the old boundary line for something? An extension, a shed, a gym? And the neighbours say no, the boundary has changed.

See my user name? Well, I am moving because of a fucking fence. A fence had been put in the 'wrong' place many years ago. We moved in 19 years ago, the fence was unbeknownst to us in the wrong place. 2 years ago a new neighbour moved next door. He wanted his 4 inch strip of land back. He didn't have a leg to stand on legally as the fence had been in position for over 40 years.

But it STILL cost us to fight it. In the end we had to give in because he wanted to go to court. Our solicitor said we would win BUT even if we were awarded costs we would still end up paying around £10k for the privilege of keeping our garden the way it was when we bought the house.

I was in anti depressants, it was horrendous. The neighbour was totally vile, laughed in my face, gleefully dug up my garden border to get his 4 inch strip of land. All my plants were killed.

I can't live beside this man, so we are moving, which of course has cost thousands.

My advice is offer to pay to replace their fence. It will then be yours, so they can't touch it, which they may not like! But the cost of taking the fence down is nothing compared to what could happen.

There are plenty of horror stories like mine if you search.

LIVIA999 · 08/02/2019 08:15

@Movinghouseatlast blooming heck! What a night mare. I remember you from a moving board. Have you managed to get moved now I remember it was nightmare.
Thanks for you advice all. Especially moving.
We've decided just to leave it. I don't want to get into any disagreement with the neighbour. I think we are just going to patch up what is there if they don't mind and just look the opposite direction!

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Movinghouseatlast · 08/02/2019 11:40

Hi Livia, yes we are moving on Tuesday. It is 2 years since our first completion date fell through! We have had the move fall through on exchange 3 times.

I really hope all our property nightmares are over now. Our new house has had the boiler blow up 2 weeks after completion, and an incorrectly laid floor that the Builder refused to put right! We are having work done on the new house, hence why we are not in yet.

Enjoy your new house!

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