We have a mid-terraced London house with a 'London' or Butterfly roof- it looks flat-roofed from the front but actually is a 'v' shape to a central valley (it's a pain- my recommendation if looking at a house with one is-don't).
It's leaked intermittently since we moved in 5 years ago- at first around the front parapet- we had that shored up- and now along the valley. We had a temp fix done which didn't really work and now have a couple of encroaching wet patches on the bedroom ceiling so it needs doing.
We have a couple of roofers look at it, both of who come recommended. Roofer 1 said he could strip out and replace the central valley- and thought that was probably where the leak was coming from- but couldn't guarantee it and the roof was quite old anyway with lots of crumbly render etc and thought it best to do the whole thing. Quote 2300 for the roof valley work or about 9k for a new roof. Roofer 2 thought the whole roof didn't need doing and the tiles were still fine- just the central gutter and the lead flashings and a bit of render. Charge about 3.3k for this.
There are no other leaks and the half of the loft space we have access to is dry. I don't think it is leaking elsewhere, but it's hard to investigate properly because of the structure.
We're not sure what to do- I really don't want to pay for a whole new roof if we don't need one (plus we can't really afford it right now- I'm about to change jobs but have a freelance stint in between so need access to savings to smooth things through-we could at the end of the year but I don't want more damage to the bedroom). But I also don't want to throw good money after bad.
It doesn't help that DP suddenly thinks he becomes a trade expert every time someone comes to quote and goes on and on about the quotes in a way that implies he suddenly knows better and everyone is out to rip him off (and then we have a row). But we are also terrible at picking trades so feel like we need some adult guidance (it's also awful trying to get anyone to come and have a look so any roofer recs. in SE London welcome).
Any grown-ups who can help?! What should we do? The additional complicating factor is that we will remortgage later this year and if we ever stop arguing about it may get some major work done- including a part loft extension (because of the structure this can only be done to about a 3rd of the space at the back). If we got a whole new roof it would be done at the same time as this, but this doesn't impact the repair. But we might not go ahead with that either.
Sigh. Very bad at decisions!