We’re planning our w/m and t/d on the party wall - must confess I hadn’t thought about the neighbours! We will be insulating that wall though so hopefully not too much sound would get through, and it’s not like it’s a bedroom on the other side.
Ours will be pretty titchy, 2.4m x 1.7m - a single wall run with stacked laundry machines one end, then two 600 base units (may put a sink in one, if I can work out a way of covering it for folding space) then a broom cupboard. Wall units above the two base units, and then large top boxes above the whole run, for extra storage. 1.1m clear walk way with sheila maid hanging from ceiling. Towel rail on opposite wall, also will hang a stepladder and ironing board on that wall.
I do see the extractor issue - we can duct ours out through the ceiling of the rooms behind it out to the garden but this depends on having suitable ceiling depth and joist direction. Ask your builder/architect?
Where will you store coats and shoes? With two DC we seem to have mountains of them, plus lots of hats gloves wellies, school pe kit, swim bags etc. I can only see this increasing as they get older. Might be a reason for a larger utility, a slice of which could be taken off to store coats etc? (We will have a separate coat cupboard hence titchy utility)
Depends whether your priority is a larger communal space, or a tidier one!