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Buying a house next to noisy kids?

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aesthesia · 18/10/2018 14:34

I am close to exchange on a three bed maisonette on a lovely council estate. Every time I went round to view before making the offer it was so quiet you could hear a pin drop. Since then I have walked past the flat a few times and heard an absolute racket from the house and garden next door. The first time I thought they must be having a party in the garden, however my heart sunk when I realised it was just a couple of kids who live there screaming. The same thing when I went back next weekend, then the same a couple of evenings after work. The kids are loud enough that you can hear them from outside their house, which is where my garden would be, and they don't seem to be at all under control. I know kids are loud but I've lived next to families with young kids before and the odd tantrum is inevitable, but either I've been really unlucky in when I chose to drop by or the tantrums in this flat are continuous. I've been past a couple of times and heard no screaming, but it seemed like no one was home.

I reached out to the seller through the EA and she has disclosed there's a family with school age children who play out in the afternoons and you can hear them in the flat with windows open, however they do tend to settle down in the evenings. No mention of weekends, which is when I really want some level of quiet. She also says they have requested a larger flat from the council - it's a three bed so this makes me think there's a fair few kids there, however it means they might be moving on soon which is positive.

I'm at a loss for how to proceed. I really love the flat and the area, I've already invested in a survey and search fees, feel very emotionally invested and want to proceed, but I hate the idea of being constantly disturbed and having to keep the windows shut and not being able to use the garden. I also feel really mean when I consider pulling out of a deal because of something that is out of the seller's control. And generally a bit mean spirited because the source of noise is kids, not adults having parties, and can't really be helped. There's no chain involved (it's a probate sale and I'm currently renting). What would you do in my situation?

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crimsonlake · 19/10/2018 14:52

I would never knowingly buy a house with noisy neighbours. It is a different matter if you discover this after you have moved in and discover the walls are thin and you can hear a lot from next door. I was recently staying at a friends and one of the houses next door but one came up for sale. However as perfect as that house would have been I knew that their adjoining neighbours spent most of their time arguing loudly and did not get on with anyone on the estate. Knowing this and even viewing the property it had to be a no from me.

Squirreltamer · 19/10/2018 18:49

Fully agree with crimsonlake.

One thing finding out something after you’ve done it.
If you find it affects you after you knowingly did it.
Not only will you hate the kids and their noise. You’ll be hating on yourself for doing it, which I think is a worse emotion in my experience.

Talia99 · 19/10/2018 20:33

Bear in mind that even if they are quiet in the evenings, as they get older, they will be staying up later. It might mean that in a few years they are never home or it might mean rowdy teenagers into the early hours.

HisBetterHalf · 20/10/2018 21:33

Maybe the kids is why shes selling?

Celeriacacaca · 20/10/2018 22:48

Don't do it. We live next door to noisy kids (think thundering up and down stairs at any time from 5am followed by screaming and then indoor football against the party wall). It's been a nightmare although they're a little older now but the screaming continues and now they've started using the fence between us a tennis wall.

I spoke to the parents as our DCs were being woken up ridiculously early and it was really starting to affect them but nothing changed.

We know this is a temporary home for them so we're hanging tight but it's very intrusive and quite stressful at times. Some people ave no concept that they're living so closely to others.

Knittedfairies · 20/10/2018 22:54

Don’t do it. There have been posts on MN written by people at the end of their very frayed ropes due to noisy neighbours; run away.

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