You're best speaking to a professional because with any potential neighbour dispute, you will want progress with your extension by the book.
If the space between you is about 1.5m and depending on how the foundations interfere with your neighbour's house, you may need to look into getting a Party Wall Award in place. It will confirm the current state of both properties, ideally with photographs, and confirms information such as what the works are, how long they are going on for, how access is going to be sorted and pretty much how any damage that may be caused by your works would be sorted.
You're probably best speaking with your builder - if they have done extensions before, they will have undoubtedly come across it. Otherwise, you might want to enquire with a chartered building surveyor (look through RICS - the Royal Institute of Chartered Surveyors have a search function) who would be able to tell you.
I think the stuff about light is something that quite often comes up for dispute but unless I'm corrected, I didn't think there is no real legal definition of what is a reasonable amount of light a property should have, which is cold comfort to people missing out. That sort of stuff normally comes under local planning and building regulations. Again, a chartered building surveyor or solicitor would be able to confirm.
In the off chance your builders need access up that path to access the outside of the proposed extension, I would try to be as civil and by the book as possible. The Award above will confirm rights of access as well.