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Only gone and found the dream house

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UninspiringUserName · 23/09/2018 19:11

We've been browsing RightMove for the past couple of years and last week noticed that a house that was gorgeous but previously out of reach has been reduced. I couldn't get it out of my head so we decided to go and view. Holy hell, it's the house of dreams. Ticks all of the boxes, and would be our ideal forever home.

We immediately arranged two valuations on our house, and have had the mortgage offer in principle to be sure it was possible. We then went to an Open Day on Sat (which was horrible - felt pressured and panicky) and still loved the house, as did the kids.

So we've put an offer in. The asking price is 'offers above' but the vendor let it slip on Monday that they'd be happy with that price, and crucially,. we've asked if they'd consider taking it off the market while we sold ours.

To give some context, it's been for sale for five months and no offers as yet. They're in no rush, but would like a sale soon. They talked about leaving it up for sale until end of Oct, then taking it off if it didn't sell and starting again in the spring if needs be. They don't have anything lined up to go to, they'll rent while they look. Oh and we know the vendors - their son is marrying my sister, so I'd like to think that might help our case...

So we now need to wait and see if anyone else at the Open Day loved it as much as we did. Or if they did, hope that they haven't sold either... We can afford to up our offer, but would rather not, of course.

Anyone else waiting to hear, either about a sale or a purchase? I feel like a cat on a hot tin roof. Despite telling myself not to fall in love with it, I only bloody have and can't help but imagine my sodding Christmas tree in there! Anyone else need a hand hold while they wait...?

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UninspiringUserName · 01/10/2018 08:43

Carrie, so, any decisions made over the weekend? It sounds like your DH loves the idea of the bigger house and better investment, but the reality is daunting. Has he edged closer to a yay or a nay?

Our house went on the market, finally, at 5pm Friday. By Sat afternoon we'd had two viewings, which I'm hoping is a really positive sign. Both couples who viewed said that they'd tried to buy a house in the village before but hadn't moved fast enough and lost out, so I'm also hoping that this is a positive sign that it might sell quickly. I guess we'll get feedback from them today, and I'm really hoping that we get more viewings lined up for this week.

Feel constantly sick.

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carrie74 · 01/10/2018 10:08

Ooh, uninspiring, that sounds really promising, hope you get an offer (sensible) today...

We had a long walk (past the house!) on Saturday, and went round and round. There is a bit of a complication with the vendors, and DH basically said he didn't trust them. So, we spoke to the EAs again, who agreed with our concerns, and we're going to try to meet with the vendors to discuss our concerns. They've got planning for a property next to the house, but are now planning to make some changes which will also require planning. This decision affects the house we like, so we need to fully understand it, and the likelihood of it being granted...

So we're no further along, but not quite in the limbo we thought we were...

April2020mom · 01/10/2018 23:16

Good luck!!

TheVeryHungryDieter · 03/10/2018 15:40

Wow, this thread is a rollercoaster! Good luck OP, hope it's working out for you!

UninspiringUserName · 03/10/2018 16:01

Well, yesterday we had another three viewings but nothing to report - two apparently loved it, but both need to sell. A couple came to view who had already sold, and they seemed to really like it but not a peep in terms of feedback as yet. I know I have no right to complain as it's only been on the market since Friday evening, but I HATE waiting!

Carrie good luck with the vendors - it's good that you can meet with them and talk through their plans, hope it goes well!

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LIVIA999 · 03/10/2018 18:47

Ooo we found our dream home a year ago and finally moved in on Friday.
It's been a very stressful year, but, now we are finally in I can honestly say it's all been worth it.
Good luck with your sales and purchases. I'll hopefully be following your progress on here.

UninspiringUserName · 04/10/2018 07:54

Livia that's such a positive message, thank you! Hope you have a wonderful life in your dream house - how come it took so long? There must have been times you felt like it was NEVER going to happen?

I've woken up feeling really despondent and like it's just out of reach. I need to seriously pull myself together. Coffee is first step I think.

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LIVIA999 · 05/10/2018 08:57

@UninspiringUserName
We couldn't sell our house. Probably as it was overpriced but the EA kept telling us it wasn't.
The house we loved got two offers and both fell through. Each time we were heartbroken but my DH was adamant it would be ours.
One of the offers fell through on the day of exchange which was also the day we got an offer.
When we finally got an offer we were delighted then after a month our buyer pulled out so it all started again.
Eventually in the July ( 11 months after putting it on the market ) we got a firm offer and moved last week.
It has been a roller coaster and I did spend a lot of time getting mildly hysterical.
My DH was the same and although we dealt with it differently it has been So stressful.
But... we are here now and although there is loads to do we are really happy.
Have you had any news?

UninspiringUserName · 05/10/2018 09:02

Livia, wow, that house was clearly destined to be yours! That must have been beyond stressful, but I'm so glad it was all worth it. Do you have big work to do, or just decor? At least you're there now and any work will be a labour of love.

No news from here, except that people love the house when they view it, but they haven't sold. One couple had sold but they were an older couple without kids and this is family house, close to the village school and opposite a little kids' play area, so I suspect it's not the house for them. A couple are coming to view tomorrow, spookily with the same surname as us, and they've already sold and have moved to the area and are living in holiday accommodation, so they sound really promising...!

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PartAnd · 05/10/2018 09:17

Good Luck OP.

LIVIA999 · 06/10/2018 08:45

@UninspiringUserName good luck with the viewing today. They sound promising.
Are you running round constantly cleaning? That was what stressed me out. That and not letting the children touch anything- although house was utterly perfect and beautiful for months.

MonaChopsis · 06/10/2018 08:50

Good luck Uninspiring, I hope it all works out for you!

beanaseireann · 07/10/2018 09:58

OP I hope you get the house and yours sells quickly.

UninspiringUserName · 08/10/2018 19:08

Oh you are all lovely, thank you.

The viewing on Sat went really well, but no feedback as yet so I suspect it wasn't the house for them. DH said they admitted they've looked at a lot of houses, and so I do wonder if they're just spectacularly fussy... Just another another viewing this evening, to a lovely couple but they've not sold, so even though they said they loved it, we're no further forward. I'm feeling encouraged though - seven viewings in a week feels pretty good going, but I just need a damned offer!

It seems one of the couples who viewed last week absolutely love it, but they need to sell theirs, but there's a lot of interest so fingers crossed if they get an offer, they may be temped to put an offer in on ours. In the meantime, the dream house is still the same - no other offers, so hoping and praying it'll stay the same until we sell!

Frustratingly we go on holiday on Thursday and the timing stinks, but the agents will do any viewings while we're away so fingers are tightly crossed.

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JeanPagett · 08/10/2018 19:24

Fingers crossed for you OP! Keep us updated.

UninspiringUserName · 26/10/2018 13:19

Well, an update... we've now been on the market for four weeks and had eight viewings, all in the first two weeks. No progress over half term and some negative feedback about our garden backing onto the village churchyard (upside: it'll never be built on!) but everyone seems to really like the house, but no offers.

The good news is that the house we want is now not accepting any more viewings. They're taking it off the market and will put it back on in the spring, unless our sells in the meantime and then we'll all proceed. So, it's good news in that respect, but it's so tiresome to keep waiting...

Carrie, are you any closer to making a decision about your house?

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carrie74 · 26/10/2018 13:42

Hey Uninspiring, that all sounds frustrating, but positive about the dream house.

Our dream house has all gone quiet - off the (Right Move) market - I suppose if they've gone with other EAs, they could just be contacting clients, who 'knows.

I'm at peace at the moment - at least no one else is buying it (that I know of)...

Maybenexttime08 · 26/10/2018 15:11

Thought I'd join in as this sounds very similar to me - we've been on the market for a month, only 10 viewings and no seconds. We've lowered the price once but can't afford to anymore!

We're relocating from South England to Yorkshire and have seen so many dream homes. However, they quickly get sold. I need to tear myself off Rightmove and put moving to the back of my mind until something eventually happens!

Difficult to do :-(

UninspiringUserName · 29/10/2018 09:49

Maybe it's a horrible situation isn't it? There's only so much you can do - make the house look amazing, make sure it's priced right, choose the best estate agent - and then the rest is just down to the right people looking at the right time. I'm finding it horribly frustrating. Usually, if I'm looking to do something big, I can drive it forward, but with this we just have to wait and it seems I'm not very good at that...

I just keep repeating the mantra 'what is for you won't pass you by' and we'll sell the house if it's meant to be. It might take another week, another month, or even be next spring, but if it's meant to happen, it will. The hardest part is when you've decided to sell yours as you've mentally disconnected from it and still have to enjoy living there. I want my new house, Goddammit!

Carrie, so did you meet with the vendors to talk about their plans, or did it all go quiet before then? If you're meant to live there, it'll happen, I'm convinced of it. If not, it means that it would have fallen down or the jump was too big and you'd had to live on dry bread and gruel.

Sending peaceful vibes to all...

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