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Help me get motivated to save for a house

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DieAntword · 11/09/2018 21:53

Husband and I were talking tonight. He reckons if we realllllly tried and scrimped and saved and all his bonuses went straight to savings instead of on impulse purchases of shiny things we could pull a deposit together in 2 years. This is a lot quicker than I imagined and it seems more motivating than imagining it happening slower.

But so far we’ve been dreadful at actually making the necessary sacrifices to save.

Can people tell me all the great things about owning your own home, because two years isn’t long to give things up if it’s worth it, sell the sacrifices to me, tell me why it’s worth it!

Ideally we’ll buy somewhere really close to his work and save a lot on transport although his work is not centrally located so we’d still have to pay transport costs to actually get into town, but there’s a small high street near it.

We’d have to sacrifice probably to live close to his work in terms of the size and niceness of the house but I think it’s worth it in that time frame. Once we have a house we can learn to drive and once we can drive we can think about if we like the idea of moving again (not for at least 5 years because I don’t think it’s worth it if you don’t stay put at least that long) maybe to somewhere bigger but further out.

So things I like the idea of: getting to decorate, not worrying about being evicted if the landlord wants to sell, getting to choose my own cooker, knowing my “rent” is paying toward me owning something not just disappearing into someone else’s pocket, getting to choose my own boiler, putting a smart thermostat on each individual radiator and fine tuning the temperature of each room at different times of day, getting a dog.

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OftenHangry · 13/09/2018 13:39

My motivation was basically just to have a fridge I want! Not that horrible things in rented apartments. 😁
I am of course joking a bit. It was one of many reasons.
Being able to paint walls when I fancy, doing a garden up as I wanted, having something what is mine (and DH's of courseBlush). Mortgage is also so much cheaper than, at least ours is so we travelled quite a bit after buying because it was easier to save for it. You can make the house to your own specs, which is the biggest bonus imho.

To save it's not just about impulse buys.
Check your energy providers, you can save a lit there. Same with tv and broadband. Unless you are under a contract with ridiculous fees if leaving early. Have a look around your home for things to sell. If you haven't used it in last 12 months, sell it. Unless it's something extremely special. Less to move and more money towards deposit. Win, win.

Do have a look at your credit score.

DieAntword · 14/09/2018 14:11

So re: the issue of renting more than we can afford to buy, we looked it
up and the house we’re in is pretty much right in our price sweet spot. If the landlord was selling it I’d almost say get this one (downside being internet speed).

Maybe once we’ve saved we should ask him. Even if he doesn’t want to sell it shows we could get something similar. I’m totally excited to save now.

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Bluntness100 · 14/09/2018 14:40

That's a total result, and you never know he might sell.

DieAntword · 14/09/2018 21:53

Budget is made. Operation save for a house underway. Going to be a tough two years but I’m still super excited.

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ianbealesonwheels · 14/09/2018 21:59

I have found virtual shopping using Pinterest a good way to plan for a new home and save money by not actually buying stuff. Doesn’t work so well with kids though!

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